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 Posted: Fri May 13, 2005 4:35 am
Evil Shiva I dunno but lately I've been feeling pretty low over relationships.
Now I was in love with one guy, I always felt he loved me back but after what happened I came to realise I was wrong.
We were pretty much like best friends, we had a few comman interests, yet we were in a way opposite... but that's what was great really and if there was anything on our minds about the relationship... we'd be honast with each other. For example if he felt incomfortable with me being around a certain friend... he'd tell me. If he got really annoyed with something I always did.. he'd simpley tell me.
A few months into the relationship he met this girl, they were friends and I put up with that. Most of my friends are male so I wasn't going to get jealous.
She had a perfect figure, perfect smile, perfect hair. So a little part of me was cautious but I wasn't ranting and raving "OMEG SHE'S GONNA TAKE YOU AWAY FROM ME!!"
They got to know each other better and to be perfectly honast he didn't like her personality all too much. He always talked about how she pissed him off over arguements. A few more weeks had passed he was still friends but still in a way hated her, he used to always rant about how hot she was though in which I joked along with because I'll admit she was a very attractive girl.
She told him she had a crush on him, and vola! he left me for her.
He obviously got with her because he was pysically attracted to her, unless he really enjoys getting screamed at every second.
In a way this ended up happening to me three times with certain guys.
Now I'm just curious, is it because I'm a bad person?
Is it just because they were simple close minded idiots?
or because they were thinner then me?
Have you ever had anything like this happen? =
To be honast at times I just don't feel up for attempting to get with anyone anymore.
I've always noticed no matter how much a guy likes me, in both looks and persoanlity.... he'll always go for a thinner girl if she comes along.
rolleyes happens with my sister all the time.
There's nothing wrong with you, it's them that are ******** up. People like him should be castrated so they can't have kids and make the gene pool even more shallow.
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Posted: Fri May 13, 2005 12:17 pm
I personally don't really think that the only reason why a guy leaves a girl, is because they are fatter or something. In your case, have you ever considered how someone's attitude is with life, people, or in general. If I was with a girl who had a negative 'tude all the time, I wouldn't stay with them for very long...
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 7:59 am
Yeah, there's only a very small amount of guys who WON'T leave a larger girl for someone smaller/more attractive/a better lay.... or at least become less attracted to the larger girl.
Men are ******** bastards.
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 10:18 am
M a d i x Men are ******** bastards. ;-;
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 1:29 pm
Not all of us, just a lot of us sweatdrop and for those of us who are nice guys Ode to Nice guysI had this sent to me
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 1:51 pm
No, not all guys are bastages... though, if I had to put a percentage on it, I would say about 97% are. There are those rare, shining jewels of testosteroni goodness though smile Unfortunately, far too few sweatdrop but they are out there.... and in here, might I add. *hugs all the guys in the guild and gives you all Vanilla Cream snowcones* biggrin
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 2:23 pm
Phaedra Lycoris No, not all guys are bastages... though, if I had to put a percentage on it, I would say about 97% are. There are those rare, shining jewels of testosteroni goodness though smile Unfortunately, far too few sweatdrop but they are out there.... and in here, might I add. *hugs all the guys in the guild and gives you all Vanilla Cream snowcones* biggrin *nibbles my snowcone*Yeah I agree lol, there are to few of the nice guys out there sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 2:54 pm
Evil Shiva I dunno but lately I've been feeling pretty low over relationships.
Now I was in love with one guy, I always felt he loved me back but after what happened I came to realise I was wrong.
We were pretty much like best friends, we had a few comman interests, yet we were in a way opposite... but that's what was great really and if there was anything on our minds about the relationship... we'd be honast with each other. For example if he felt incomfortable with me being around a certain friend... he'd tell me. If he got really annoyed with something I always did.. he'd simpley tell me.
A few months into the relationship he met this girl, they were friends and I put up with that. Most of my friends are male so I wasn't going to get jealous.
She had a perfect figure, perfect smile, perfect hair. So a little part of me was cautious but I wasn't ranting and raving "OMEG SHE'S GONNA TAKE YOU AWAY FROM ME!!"
They got to know each other better and to be perfectly honast he didn't like her personality all too much. He always talked about how she pissed him off over arguements. A few more weeks had passed he was still friends but still in a way hated her, he used to always rant about how hot she was though in which I joked along with because I'll admit she was a very attractive girl.
She told him she had a crush on him, and vola! he left me for her.
He obviously got with her because he was pysically attracted to her, unless he really enjoys getting screamed at every second.
In a way this ended up happening to me three times with certain guys.
Now I'm just curious, is it because I'm a bad person?
Is it just because they were simple close minded idiots?
or because they were thinner then me?
Have you ever had anything like this happen? =
To be honast at times I just don't feel up for attempting to get with anyone anymore.
I've always noticed no matter how much a guy likes me, in both looks and persoanlity.... he'll always go for a thinner girl if she comes along.
rolleyes happens with my sister all the time.
People like that make me mad. At school no one ever gave me a second look cause I was fat. Not that much has changed now but... Like some of the others have said, you'll find someone who likes you for who you are, no matter what you look like. I personaly don't care what a person looks like. If you love them they are the most beautiful person in the wrold and that's how it should be. I'm sure you're a very nice person sojust keep on being that and someone will come along for you. I've met a few people on here that like biger people an done of them lives where I do and we're meeting up sometime. So just hang in there there is someone for you. I promise. Take care. Thinking of you Night heart
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 10:31 pm
The_Night_I_Died I personaly don't care what a person looks like. If you love them they are the most beautiful person in the wrold and that's how it should be.
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 10:37 pm
emeraldwhirlwind Phaedra Lycoris No, not all guys are bastages... though, if I had to put a percentage on it, I would say about 97% are. There are those rare, shining jewels of testosteroni goodness though smile Unfortunately, far too few sweatdrop but they are out there.... and in here, might I add. *hugs all the guys in the guild and gives you all Vanilla Cream snowcones* biggrin *nibbles my snowcone*Yeah I agree lol, there are to few of the nice guys out there sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon May 16, 2005 3:17 am
Phaedra Lycoris emeraldwhirlwind Phaedra Lycoris No, not all guys are bastages... though, if I had to put a percentage on it, I would say about 97% are. There are those rare, shining jewels of testosteroni goodness though smile Unfortunately, far too few sweatdrop but they are out there.... and in here, might I add. *hugs all the guys in the guild and gives you all Vanilla Cream snowcones* biggrin *nibbles my snowcone*Yeah I agree lol, there are to few of the nice guys out there sweatdrop A lot of guys aren't much better though, they chase after the ones with "good looks" and make fun of the rest by calling them ugly and whatnot sweatdrop I got a guy in class I wanna punch in the mouth because he thinks so much of himself and his standards are realy high sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun May 22, 2005 10:13 am
emeraldwhirlwind Phaedra Lycoris emeraldwhirlwind Phaedra Lycoris No, not all guys are bastages... though, if I had to put a percentage on it, I would say about 97% are. There are those rare, shining jewels of testosteroni goodness though smile Unfortunately, far too few sweatdrop but they are out there.... and in here, might I add. *hugs all the guys in the guild and gives you all Vanilla Cream snowcones* biggrin *nibbles my snowcone*Yeah I agree lol, there are to few of the nice guys out there sweatdrop A lot of guys aren't much better though, they chase after the ones with "good looks" and make fun of the rest by calling them ugly and whatnot sweatdrop I got a guy in class I wanna punch in the mouth because he thinks so much of himself and his standards are realy high sweatdrop Sounds like my brother -_-" Except girls don't think he ugly..........He the athletic star player type who is popular O.o Probably why he is like that XD
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Posted: Sun May 22, 2005 12:31 pm
Untamed Toast emeraldwhirlwind Phaedra Lycoris emeraldwhirlwind Phaedra Lycoris No, not all guys are bastages... though, if I had to put a percentage on it, I would say about 97% are. There are those rare, shining jewels of testosteroni goodness though smile Unfortunately, far too few sweatdrop but they are out there.... and in here, might I add. *hugs all the guys in the guild and gives you all Vanilla Cream snowcones* biggrin *nibbles my snowcone*Yeah I agree lol, there are to few of the nice guys out there sweatdrop A lot of guys aren't much better though, they chase after the ones with "good looks" and make fun of the rest by calling them ugly and whatnot sweatdrop I got a guy in class I wanna punch in the mouth because he thinks so much of himself and his standards are realy high sweatdrop Sounds like my brother -_-" Except girls don't think he ugly..........He the athletic star player type who is popular O.o Probably why he is like that XD This guy is a pothead lol, and he isn't that great looking./ I don't understand how he can get off judging people like that -_-''
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Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2005 8:15 pm
Well, I can't say to just keep imagining this guy having to glue the girl back together when the wind rips her apart, because it won't make it any easier to remember that he did do something heartless.
Just try and remember the good times.
Don't hold a grudge on this guy, but don't repeat your mistakes.
Oh and its not about you, its about him
completely about him. He wants what he wants.
Do you really just want to me his trophy gf?
(didn't think so...)
Um, and manure jobs pay $5.25 an hour. I like the manure job fantasy! ^_^ hee hee, manure.
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Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 11:48 am
Evil Shiva I dunno but lately I've been feeling pretty low over relationships.
Now I was in love with one guy, I always felt he loved me back but after what happened I came to realise I was wrong.
We were pretty much like best friends, we had a few comman interests, yet we were in a way opposite... but that's what was great really and if there was anything on our minds about the relationship... we'd be honast with each other. For example if he felt incomfortable with me being around a certain friend... he'd tell me. If he got really annoyed with something I always did.. he'd simpley tell me.
A few months into the relationship he met this girl, they were friends and I put up with that. Most of my friends are male so I wasn't going to get jealous.
She had a perfect figure, perfect smile, perfect hair. So a little part of me was cautious but I wasn't ranting and raving "OMEG SHE'S GONNA TAKE YOU AWAY FROM ME!!"
They got to know each other better and to be perfectly honast he didn't like her personality all too much. He always talked about how she pissed him off over arguements. A few more weeks had passed he was still friends but still in a way hated her, he used to always rant about how hot she was though in which I joked along with because I'll admit she was a very attractive girl.
She told him she had a crush on him, and vola! he left me for her.
He obviously got with her because he was pysically attracted to her, unless he really enjoys getting screamed at every second.
In a way this ended up happening to me three times with certain guys.
Now I'm just curious, is it because I'm a bad person?
Is it just because they were simple close minded idiots?
or because they were thinner then me?
Have you ever had anything like this happen? =
To be honast at times I just don't feel up for attempting to get with anyone anymore.
I've always noticed no matter how much a guy likes me, in both looks and persoanlity.... he'll always go for a thinner girl if she comes along.
rolleyes happens with my sister all the time.
guys who throw away a girl just because of their looks are shallow and narrowminded. Id say just get over it he is just an a*****e, and if he cant see you for who you are, he is not worthy of your pressence.
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