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 Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 3:39 pm
Wow. I wish I knew what to say, however most ppl here have said it for me. My mom worked for 11 years at a shelter for abused women and children, she might have some suggestions. I'm online for an hour or so every other day, mostly between noon and 3 pm. If you have any questions about the Church or anything, or just want someone to talk to, I'll be more than happy to. Just drop me a PM. It could help me with my learning. ^-^ I was converted a year ago and am learning the Book of Mormon. I love it. But yeah, if you wanna talk drop a line. I'll do whatever I can to help you and you'll be in my prayers. Quote: i live in the us and i am 16 now....if i draw any atenchion (legaly) to myself my father will come and take me away and that is worse than it is now Sorry, just have to make a quick note of this. My parents have gone through a similar case thing cuz I have to step-sisters with a.....difficult mother. If you're 16 then the state should give you a choice on whether you want to go with your dad or not. From what my parents said, if you're 16 or older then they can't make you go with him if you don't want to.
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Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 4:24 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2008 12:18 pm
Feel free to PM... actually, if you pm and ask I could give you my phone number if you are ever in real danger or just to talk.
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2008 4:00 pm
I don't have much to advise besides what's been said already.
But in any case, if you are being abused, you need to contact the police in some way, discretely if you need to. I noticed that you said any legal attention will bring your dad back. If that were to happen, then you should call the police if HE hurts you. If nothing works, know that God loves you, that we care about you, and look forward to your independence at age 18, I guess. I'm not sure what else to say, I just hope this is helping.
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Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 9:55 pm
i spend as much time as i can away from home but when i am alone with my uncle he says horrible HORRIBLE things about mormons as he beats me things i know in my heart could never be true and how could he be full of so much hate to say such things because of all this i find myself drawing inwerd my questions have stopped because i spend my time placing bandades over my wonded faith. even though i know the things he says are not true i don't know the truth or even enough to know how to ask.
this week is realy hard because i have no one cloce to me to talk to and won't next week eather.
is it wrong that i find myself filling with anger for my uncle for his unjust hatred and constent atacks on the mormon faith? i'm the kind of girl who will fight to the death for what i beleve and love.
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 1:44 pm
It's natural to be angry at him for his words and actions but it's not healthy. "Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering." It's from "Star Wars" but it's still true.
You need to get yourself removed from the situation. It's not safe for you physically or spiritually. It will not be easy but you need to do it. There ARE places and people that will help you but unless you ask, they can't reach you. Put your anger to use. Let it give you the strength and determination you need to get out of there.
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 7:19 pm
every time i try to help myself out i am shut down where ever i turn
i feel so angery
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 8:37 pm
Concerning the anger: It's only natural. However, you should try to forgive him. I know it sounds hard; heck, I have a hard time forgiving people for much more trivial situations. But it may also help to try to understand his perspective. He is incredibly stuck in his ways, and he cannot see another faith as correct. Perhaps he is afraid of the choices that you may make in your life, as many are of family members. In any case, perhaps you can try to focus on love and understanding. In the scriptures Jesus stated to love them that persecute you. (Not remembering the exact phrasing, sorry).
As for yourself: keep trying to find help. Do what you can to get protection from the abuse you are facing. And never, NEVER stop asking your Heavenly Father for help. Pray to him often and search the scriptures. Maybe ask your boyfriend to help you. He is there in your life for a reason; everyone, everyplace, has a purpose. And that goes for you too. You are a Daughter of God. And always know that we are here for you. Feel free to send me a PM, or simply to post here.
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Posted: Wed Aug 06, 2008 8:56 am
Like they said, anger is natural. Try your best to overcome it. It won't be easy, but if you can feel forgiveness instead of anger then you'll feel a lot better. Easier said than done, I know. I have to deal with a relative that bashes the Mormon faith whenever and however she can. Of course, she doesn't use violence so I can't help with that.
Seriously, PM me. We can talk about anything and everything and if you have any questions I'll answer them the best I can. *huggles*
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Posted: Fri Aug 08, 2008 7:52 pm
most days i think i fale by letting anger get the best of me. i find myself lashing out then feeling guilty. my body is tired but not my sole. i will not give up when there is still hope. i think i have convinced my grandma to move without telling her why
.... just keeping people updated 4laugh
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I am on once and a while, I'll send a request.
