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 Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 12:47 am
Haliya Unfortunately... most guys who are competent in gaming tend to ego trip... just like any guy who's good at anything really... that's the tricky part... how much ego-tripping is tolerable. XD Well, I often consider myself a great gamer, but I don't usually ego trip. I learned it because I suck at fighting and strategy games while all my cousins and my brother can rock my a** at these games. I even usually take 2 full hours to beat an easy opponent in Rise of Nations. confused
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Posted: Thu Jun 14, 2007 1:47 pm
The perfect gamer guy would be a guy who's nice enough that, when playing a game I'm not interested in or good at, will always play co-op mode instead of competitive against me, and will always be on the same team as me no matter how horrendously sucky I am at it. If I were to beat him at any game, he'd act like a mature adult about it instead of demanding rematch after rematch, and if I were to start getting frustrated after losing too much, he'd know when to stop playing. He would be just as considerate of my feelings as he is of his own, and would never, EVER royally whoop my butt on any occasion or cheat or spawn kill me or anything like that.
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Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 7:52 am
Anyway, at this point in my life, as long as the girl is under like 200 pounds, and likes some of the stuff I do, I'd go out with her. If she doesn't like the same stuff as me or is over 200 pounds, I won't go out with her unless she can beat me in DBZ: Budokai Tenkaichi 2, which hopefully will never happen.
So I'm picky, deal with it.
I would love to know what kinds of things most gamer girls look for in guys. I would love a girl that could kick my a** in video games. The only game I frequently lose at is Super Smash Bros. Melee. I'm decent, though.
Of course, I played an XBox all of like 5 times in my entire life, so I suck pretty bad at Halo and Halo 2.
I'm off topic! I just like to type!
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Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 11:47 pm
DarkMsage I would love to know what kinds of things most gamer girls look for in guys. I would love a girl that could kick my a** in video games. The only game I frequently lose at is Super Smash Bros. Melee. I'm decent, though. That's two of us now, bro. Countless are the times when my a** was handed to me in a sterling silver platter at that very same game, but so far, I've never, ever played against a lady. Girls here in Mexico don't seem to be interested in videogames at all, to the point that I've only met one single gamer girl in my entire life. confused
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Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 7:36 am
Da_Nuke Well, I often consider myself a great gamer, but I don't usually ego trip. I learned it because I suck at fighting and strategy games while all my cousins and my brother can rock my a** at these games. I even usually take 2 full hours to beat an easy opponent in Rise of Nations. confused See, you're honest about that. That's a good thing. Most girls who are fresh into gaming won't be amazing at it.. and they do need the moral support to stay in. All my female cousins are gamers.. (and models, and musicians, and athletes... and... etc.) the only one who isn't a gamer at all is my sister (oh the shame). XD So... there are girls with different backgrounds and interests who play games... it's just a matter of fitting their molds I guess.
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Posted: Mon Jun 25, 2007 3:36 pm
Gartain ya know, honestly there was a time when all i wanted was a girl that could beat me at a fighting game. Eventually i went with any girl i could discuss games with, and eventually then someone who just made me happy. I've actually gone out with a few gamer girls... and while we did have games in common, i found that we had little else. Indeed, some of the gamer girls i went out with in retrospect were downright scary. Look for someone who makes you happy, and cares about you for more then just your almost unhealthy ( xd ) love for games. My girlfriend owns an SNES, and Playstation (but no memory card). She'll play some games with me, and she understands my need for them. But when we're together i usually holster my controller. And i'm happier with her then i ever dreamed of being when i was with the gamer girls i dated. All i'm saying is just because you want a gamer girl, don't olny look at that one quality. Gamer girls are more then that, and while playing Halo with your significant other could be awesome, watching a meteor shower and talking about books could be just as gratifying. 3nodding that was beautiful man. even with the halo comment
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Posted: Mon Jun 25, 2007 4:29 pm
Okay dude, here's my best advice.
1st of all, though it's great you want a female gamer, don't narrow your options. If all you have if a gf who like games and that's all ya'll got...it won't last. If you find a chik who you love talking to and hanging out with but she doesn't like games, go for her anyway. I'm lucky that my bf is a gamer too, but we talk about other things and hang out at non-game stores more than we play video games together and go to gamestop.
Cheaters never prosper so fidelity is key. But that's obvious. Never lie, that'll hurt you. Unless a chik is evil incarnate and asks you a question like 'does this make me look fat?' lie away. LIE! Chicks need to know they can trust you so honesty is key. Jealousy is a turn off and a red flag. Be supportive, not controling. Clingyness is couple's version of staulking. Yes I know, obvious. But needs to be said.
Have common sense. You don't have to be a smart man to win a girl. Just thik with your brain & not your pants. Only a few guys I know undertsand this. Find a chick you love talking to. Not just about one to three subjects though. Be able to talk about anything, or mostly so. In a healthy relationship you talk more than anything else. Be a good listener, and find a good one in return. If you have memory troubles, like myself, find ways to phrase your memory lapse to show you're trying.
This tibit may actually be useful. Try being friends with a chik you like before asking her out. By being her friend, you get a chance to know the real her. I say this because many people, both male & female, try to act differently when they're dating someone in an attempt to make the person like them more. Ex: chik doesn't if a guy friend sees her messy room, but cleans it up when expecting a guy she has a crush on to come over, same for guys.
Hope my adivice is useful for you. & good luck.
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 7:30 am
I think most gamer girls want a guy who plays the same games and is there for them no matter what thats just me thou Ive had some great moments playing the same games they like and I enjoy as well
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Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 7:46 pm
OK, for just about any girl, you have to have a sense of humor. Be able to laugh at yourself, make jokes and all that crap. If you want a gamer girlfriend, you should probably like some of the same games she likes. Be a gentleman and open doors for her and stoof like that since just about all girls think being polite is attractive. Other than that...try to be smart, respect her, and...yea, that's about it. Being able to cook is a bonus, but if you are kitchenly challenged like me there's nothing you can really do about that.
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2007 7:59 pm
I like funny boys and boys who would play co op games with me and he has to be cute too
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 10:08 am
nightwings  This is what I am looking for.... lol no seriously a guy with a good heart and the willingness to learn to enjoy the things (ie-girlie movies, etc.) the person your interested in enjoys. Peter ..he is a good example
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 2:04 pm
What I want in a guy...
As long as he has a sense of humor and is not a total pig, I'd go out on a first date with him. Depending on how that went would be the next step.
Oh, and being hot doesn't hurt 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 7:05 pm
Dante_keybladesCO nightwings This is what I am looking for.... lol no seriously a guy with a good heart and the willingness to learn to enjoy the things (ie-girlie movies, etc.) the person your interested in enjoys. Peter ..he is a good example Peter..xD (yes I do have the maturity level of a nine year old) I guess shes right though, thats what any girl wants in a guy.
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Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 10:22 pm
guys im a girl i swear!and ill show u a pic...
file:///C:/Documents and Settings/BARBIE/My Documents/My Pictures/the rodeo/the rodeo 106.jpg
(copy and past one internet)
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 2:43 pm
I've probably had the most typical of relationships with a guy gamer. He was younger then i was, and weighted about 200 pounds. It was ok for a while, but i found that all he was really interested in was my body and trying to get into my pants. My advice is don't go out with someone just becuase you're desperate, good guys will come along in time. Just be asterive of what you want the relationship to be, if you feel pressured by him , you shouln't suck it up or anything, actually tell him! Honesty goes a long way when it comes to relationships, so lie only when it's nessisary.
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