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 Posted: Mon Nov 29, 2004 5:38 pm
When i accually found out i was Bi was like hm...have i been like this forever? then i thoug about and i have always had an odd fasination with women and how they look and work. even though i am a woman, that doesnt mean that i understand myself completly.
but right now, i know im bi...that might change...but now im bi...
btw, i hate people who say their bi/gay for shits and giggles. to get attention? how does that work, im wondering...? stressed grr...damn those people!
and isnt it annoying( if youre bi/gay ) when you fall for a straight person...gah! i hate it! has that ever happend to anyone before or is that just me? domokun
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Posted: Wed Dec 01, 2004 2:32 am
I've been Bi for as long as i can remember. When I was 12 I kissed a Girl for the first time. that was my first kiss and now she's my girlfriend, no matter what people at my school say. Especially when we're walking down the hallway holding hands or kissing in the hall way. They do that with their boyfriend/girlfriend. so why Can't I?
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Posted: Mon Dec 06, 2004 4:13 pm
I am a bit bi courious acutally. However i have found my self attracted to females, but have never tried anything, i have always been with males
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Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2004 5:04 am
I sure as flying fairies know that I am Bi. >.< I know because I do find both genders attractive, After all, I have two crushes, One either gender.
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Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2004 7:15 am
symphony0 When i accually found out i was Bi was like hm...have i been like this forever? then i thoug about and i have always had an odd fasination with women and how they look and work. even though i am a woman, that doesnt mean that i understand myself completly. but right now, i know im bi...that might change...but now im bi... btw, i hate people who say their bi/gay for shits and giggles. to get attention? how does that work, im wondering...? stressed grr...damn those people! and isnt it annoying( if youre bi/gay ) when you fall for a straight person...gah! i hate it! has that ever happend to anyone before or is that just me? domokun I hate them too, they dont realize how hard it is, I had always got hot friends, but after I told them they just ran away. I am better now, have real friends who will acept me for who Im. Its weird to be gay in Mexico, simply cant do it to call out the attention, it would be reeealy wrong. Gays arnt quite accepted here, I almost got linched last week. well beated up, but here its about the same.
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Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2004 11:41 am
It has to be said: People who pretend to be gay/lez/bi are sad and pathetic, they think itll make them more attractive to the opposite sex and it sickens me! It makes people who really are g/l/b look ridiculous scream
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Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2004 3:34 pm
Yankee Cowgirl I am a bit bi courious acutally. However i have found my self attracted to females, but have never tried anything, i have always been with males I was almost the same except I did have a huge crush on my best friend(female) but we never did advance more than friendship back then, so I never found out. I was never attracted to guys back in school, even a handsome guy stand in front of me, I never have the feeling that I felt for a woman. For the pass many years I notice I am more attracted to female, and last year I just come to term with myself that I love women more than men. I am still not sure if I am Bi or not. I am living with my boyfriend right now. sad
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Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2004 4:21 pm
Electria Yankee Cowgirl I am a bit bi courious acutally. However i have found my self attracted to females, but have never tried anything, i have always been with males I was almost the same except I did have a huge crush on my best friend(female) but we never did advance more than friendship back then, so I never found out. I was never attracted to guys back in school, even a handsome guy stand in front of me, I never have the feeling that I felt for a woman. For the pass many years I notice I am more attracted to female, and last year I just come to term with myself that I love women more than men. I am still not sure if I am Bi or not. I am living with my boyfriend right now. sad If you're not attracted to men, then how can you have a boyfriend? Sorry if I sound mean, I'm just curious. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2004 8:13 pm
Michiko chan Electria Yankee Cowgirl I am a bit bi courious acutally. However i have found my self attracted to females, but have never tried anything, i have always been with males I was almost the same except I did have a huge crush on my best friend(female) but we never did advance more than friendship back then, so I never found out. I was never attracted to guys back in school, even a handsome guy stand in front of me, I never have the feeling that I felt for a woman. For the pass many years I notice I am more attracted to female, and last year I just come to term with myself that I love women more than men. I am still not sure if I am Bi or not. I am living with my boyfriend right now. sad If you're not attracted to men, then how can you have a boyfriend? Sorry if I sound mean, I'm just curious. sweatdrop guess thats fooling everybody else
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2004 1:02 am
Hey everyone,I'm bisexual.I've been bi for quite some time but I hardly ever admit it because I know that my family won't except any form of homosexuality.
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2004 5:17 am
Ninjara i look back on my younger years and notice that i was attracted in some way or other to both genders. so therefore i guess i am bi, though i've never been with another woman before. yet... it's exactly the same for me
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2004 8:42 am
i'm a girl. i was 11 and my first REAL kiss was from a girl. my first relationship i ever had was a girl. but i still like guys. and i'm 18 now-out of those confusing times. ^^ (does that qualify as bi?)
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2004 9:49 am
Michiko chan Electria Yankee Cowgirl I am a bit bi courious acutally. However i have found my self attracted to females, but have never tried anything, i have always been with males I was almost the same except I did have a huge crush on my best friend(female) but we never did advance more than friendship back then, so I never found out. I was never attracted to guys back in school, even a handsome guy stand in front of me, I never have the feeling that I felt for a woman. For the pass many years I notice I am more attracted to female, and last year I just come to term with myself that I love women more than men. I am still not sure if I am Bi or not. I am living with my boyfriend right now. sad If you're not attracted to men, then how can you have a boyfriend? Sorry if I sound mean, I'm just curious. sweatdrop Thanks for asking, I know people is going to wonder why I have a boyfriend if I am Les. That is why I am wondering if I am Bi in anyway. This is very complicated, is a long story. I don't know where to begin. I don't dislike men but the feeling just isn't completely the same. I have tons of affection for him but the love is different, it is not sexual if I may put it that way. I came from a traditional family where homosexual is a no no. I had never heard or know anyone who are gay at that time. People are much luckier today, back then sex education was just introduced to school, and there were so much talk about that already, don't even mention talking about homosexual. Tons of pressure from society and the way I was brought up, that I lead to believe I have to grow up to marry a man and have children. I followed this path blindly, which then lead to how I met my boyfriend. He more like a common law, we never got married. I don't believe in marriage anyway unless for my children's protection if I have any. I swear I was never meant to use him as my cover up for my sexuality. If I know I am Les back then I would never dated him. Things just happen. I have been living with him for 10years now, that is something not many couples can do and I can see there will be many more to come. I am not saying I am not happy with him, I got tons of respect from him and he treats me so well. I don't see even if I live with someone who is suited to my sexuality preference will ever treat me the way he did to me. My love for him is a differnt kind of love that I am willing to sacrify my desire of being with someone in my gender. That is the only gift I can give him. As I look through many forum there where people talk about being gay is a choice, it really sadden me. They don't really understand, all they know is looking at the surface of things. Oh my friend decided to turn gay or oh my friend decided to become straight again. I was thinking oh really, do you really know what your friend's mind thinking? Why would anyone automatically qualify being straight when they are with someone in the oppsite sex. There are many reasons people did what they did. As an outsider, they only see, oh he turns back striaght, so this is a choice thing being gay or not. That is a load of crap. Being gay is not a choice but there is a choice if you decided to live that lifestyle. If you are lucky enough to meet someone who fit in your sexualityI am very happy for you. You are lucky. I know for myself that I am Les or may be Bi(not sure yet), but living the lifestyle of a homosexual or single is a choice I take or not. No matter what lifestyle I took, I am still who I am, a Lesbian. I get attracted to female and hell no not just any female I came to meet. That is another myth people had, thinking all homosexual are sex machine, hitting on anyone in their gender, that is crap. Ah, I talked too much, sorry about the rant. If you want to know more or want to talk, PM me. I am actually very friendly... blaugh Don't be scare, I won't bite. May be you can help me figure out who I am. smile
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2004 2:49 pm
well im 17 and bi, my parents know beacuse they made me tell them, anyway I was raped at age 8 and still havent recovered from it.....i have a lot of problems with guys, ive only had like one bf irl but no gf's the other bi chicks hear in this town already have someone, ive had many online peeps, but it was safe but it wasent the whole deal, i get lonely alot and wonder if im looking hard enough....im not sure, but I am bi and perfer women more then men..(sorry guys) thx 4 hearing my depressing story....
alex
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Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2004 7:33 am
alex_1986_feb well im 17 and bi, my parents know beacuse they made me tell them, anyway I was raped at age 8 and still havent recovered from it.....i have a lot of problems with guys, ive only had like one bf irl but no gf's the other bi chicks hear in this town already have someone, ive had many online peeps, but it was safe but it wasent the whole deal, i get lonely alot and wonder if im looking hard enough....im not sure, but I am bi and perfer women more then men..(sorry guys) thx 4 hearing my depressing story.... alex I am sorry to hear what happened. It is good that you have come to talk about it, it is a great start. I hope everyone will do the same, I think that is the point of having this guild, isn't it? Great to hear from you Alex and everyone who shared or will be sharing their stories. 3nodding
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