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Curiosity, simply enough. I look around here, and I wonder just how many people here (And on Gaia as a whole) are really bisexual/lesbian/whatever.

I mean, the majority of people on Gaia are between the ages of 13 and 21, roughly, correct? And most of them are quite alike; many people here share an interest in anime, art, writing, ect. Now, the age that I described is widely acknowledged as being quite rocky, uncertain, and generally screwed up. So we've got a large amount of fairly alike people, quite uncertain sexually, for sure, and of course they all want to accepted, and have friends, but of course be different. Conformity is evil, yes? Bad, evil, twisted, corrupt? Maybe not quite so extreme, but you get the point.

Well so you're going though this odd, uncertain time in your life, and maybe all those of the opposite gender are pissing you off or something, and... time to jump on the bandwagon! It seems almost trendy here on Gaia to be gay/lesbian/bisexual, to be different in that way, ect. What I basically mean is that a whole lot of people who claim to be (And likely really beleive they are!) whatever it is they claim to be likely AREN'T, and are just going though a phase, or something. But, another thing I think about is, a whole lot of the people, without these influences, would have turned out normal. Or normaler. And by 'normal', I only mean 'as it is intended by nature to be', so don't get on my back about that. For how many did it become more than a phase, or whatever the hell it is, because there are so many positive influences saying "It's fine, don't worry, go along with it."

I'm not saying it's bad, or should be avoided, or that i'm even right in any way. Just something i've been thinking about and decided to say. Feel free to comment, i'm willing to talk more on the subject, as i'm sure I wasn't clear on most of it. Just typing crap down...

i look back on my younger years and notice that i was attracted in some way or other to both genders. so therefore i guess i am bi, though i've never been with another woman before. yet...

Another interesting way to think of it. Perhaps everyone is, to some small extend at least, attracted to those of the same gender. Even if it's the smallest bit. It would make sense, I suppose.

What I talked about, the influences have people become bi/whatever could instead just be getting that person to accept what they felt for what it is. Then it...

Ah, damn. It's too late for me to be thinking like this.

As a small footnote, Jones has never been with anyone. What a small, sad, wretched soul his is.

Really, I can more repellant creature at school. I don't have the worst looks (I'm ranked in the bottom 25%, I daresay, however) and i'm centainly not the biggest a*****e.

I just have this aura of "What the ****ness" about me. Far more confusing that attractive.

Fun!

Back on topic, shall we?

Heh. You could say that. I had my first kiss by my bestfriend from befor pre-1st grade. Her name was Malissa

Then in the 3rd or 4th grade I made out with a old ex friend of my name Kayla. We are ex friends because she was a b***h to my lil brother.

I do have a background Jones. Dont think just because of my age I havent done stuff. stare

everyones background is different... dont judge by age dude...its just as bad as straight people judging bi/gays...and i hate it...grr on the judging

I'm straight, so I have no say in this.

Haha.. that's true about you. blaugh

.. Just so everyone will quit asking me, I am bisexual. 3nodding But, I'm not going to go and tell people about my past/present personal life either.. neutral