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 Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 4:54 pm
So me and my closest friend recently started to "date" a couple of weeks ago. Now you may be wondering why the quotes around the word date. Well she is a girl, and as my signature and profile on here would say. I am gay. Well me and her are going to homecoming together and such, and I am doing it strictly to get my mother and stepdad of my ******** a** to date ANY of my friends that are female. So I did, well yesterday, me and my friend though about pretending (as in stage) having sex, and "forget" to throw away the condom. So my parents think I lost my virginity.
So I am curious if this is the right thing to do. I mean I think it'd get my mom off my back, and she'd think I'm bi and what not and my stepdad probably wouldn't hate me as much.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 5:01 pm
I think that sounds like complete overkill. But hey, it's your family situation. :s
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 5:02 pm
Taeryyn I think that sounds like complete overkill. But hey, it's your family situation. :s It's easier then when ever you bring up a girl. No matter how big of a b***h or how much you're self hates her. You're mother saying "Why don't you date her?" Or "What about her? You should date her!" -.-
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 5:06 pm
Fuuta De La Stella Taeryyn I think that sounds like complete overkill. But hey, it's your family situation. :s It's easier then when ever you bring up a girl. No matter how big of a b***h or how much you're self hates her. You're mother saying "Why don't you date her?" Or "What about her? You should date her!" -.- I'm still failing to see why that means you should leave a condom lying around so your parents think you're boning your new girlfriend... But like I said before, it's your family situation, so you'd know better than us. However, if you have to ask a bunch of random strangers if it's "the right thing to do", it probably isn't.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 5:09 pm
Taeryyn Fuuta De La Stella Taeryyn I think that sounds like complete overkill. But hey, it's your family situation. :s It's easier then when ever you bring up a girl. No matter how big of a b***h or how much you're self hates her. You're mother saying "Why don't you date her?" Or "What about her? You should date her!" -.- I'm still failing to see why that means you should leave a condom lying around so your parents think you're boning your new girlfriend... But like I said before, it's your family situation, so you'd know better than us. However, if you have to ask a bunch of random strangers if it's "the right thing to do", it probably isn't. It was just help deciding, besides it isn't really a new girlfriend. It's more like a really close friend. I can't even do more then a peck to the lips to her without wanting to pull away almost instantly.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 6:08 pm
Considering how vicious they get, yeah reducing it some definitely helps.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 6:18 pm
You should watch the movie Easy A. Your story sounds like a part of that movie.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 7:11 pm
I also think this sounds like a bad idea. It might make things easier now, but it sounds like something that could really come back to bite you later.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 7:18 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 11, 2011 7:37 am
Taeryyn Fuuta De La Stella Taeryyn I think that sounds like complete overkill. But hey, it's your family situation. :s It's easier then when ever you bring up a girl. No matter how big of a b***h or how much you're self hates her. You're mother saying "Why don't you date her?" Or "What about her? You should date her!" -.- I'm still failing to see why that means you should leave a condom lying around so your parents think you're boning your new girlfriend... But like I said before, it's your family situation, so you'd know better than us. However, if you have to ask a bunch of random strangers if it's "the right thing to do", it probably isn't. this it seems like too much of a hassle imo. just ignore your mom and remind her your gay, or if she doenst know your gay then just pretend to be super picky about girls
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Posted: Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:02 am
I don't know any parent that will be okay with sex. Either way I don't know how your family works but I personally wouldn't stage something.If they can't except you for who you are, that's their problem not yours. They'll learn that eventually.
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Posted: Tue Oct 11, 2011 2:15 pm
definitly watch Easy A. good souce for thi situation.
and i'm just short of lesbian so i've just made it clear over time that my standards in men are beyond high and picky would be a vast understatement. she's pretty much let me be now on the whole dating thing.
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