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Will you let me have your password?
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Aakosir

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 9:42 am


So I know all of my fiance's passwords. His bank account, his Facebook, email, et cetera. I know he trusts me and I will not do anything to his accounts. But to some people this would be invading privacy. My borther in law is so defensive about his privacy, but he must know my sister's passwords.

Would you let your signifigant other have all of your passwords?

If not, please explain.

What would you do if they broke this trust and did something to your account?
PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 9:45 am


I think he already knows them, and considering we have a joint bank account, I've got that one too. And the one for the Sears card. In fact, the only one I don't have is his work email, and that's because I can't have it - nondisclosure thing, and since I'm not company, I don't really have a right to see it. 3nodding

Doesn't bother me any, to be honest - not like I don't tell him all of this stuff anyway, and I know where he sleeps, so if my characters in WoW go missing, I know where to look.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 9:46 am


I've told my boyfriend my passwords and I know his. When he goes to boot camp he wants me to go through all his stuff for him. When you trust someone that much a password isn't a big deal.

...'Cept my Gaia account. Some things are too sacred.


My friend Bri actually gave her passwords to her friend and her friend went on her Facebook and pretended like Bri just found out she had clymidia and never apologized about it. Why would someone trust a person like that?
PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 9:52 am


Shiori Miko
I've told my boyfriend my passwords and I know his. When he goes to boot camp he wants me to go through all his stuff for him. When you trust someone that much a password isn't a big deal.

...'Cept my Gaia account. Some things are too sacred.


My friend Bri actually gave her passwords to her friend and her friend went on her Facebook and pretended like Bri just found out she had clymidia and never apologized about it. Why would someone trust a person like that?


That is really shallow.

I do not think I could trust my mom with my passwords. She would go through everything! She has read my journals.... I guess it is different when you have someone you are intimate with because I actually pull out some parts I want Matt to read in my journal.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 9:58 am


i only share it with people i trust, and only if there is some reason for them to use it (like if i ask them to do something for me as a favour on my account). if there's no need i'll still keep it too myself, and i am otherwise very careful with my passwords...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:00 am


My husband has all my passwords and such.
And I have his x3 But we never go on each other's accounts, i think we have them in case of emergency.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 12:04 pm


I don't share my passwords with anyone, least of all my husband. Knowing him, he'd snoop and then make fun of me later. xd

We do share passwords for things like bank accounts and generic sites we both use (for the tv guide and other such things), but anything social or private is a no-go.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 1:18 pm


She has ones like Facebook and my email. She knows my PIN number too, but I don't let her have access to my card. I'll give her money if she asks for it, but unrestricted access to my account will have to wait until we are married.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 2:57 pm


My husband and I share all of our passwords, and we notify each other when we change them. I have no problem with him looking at what I'm doing, and he doesn't mind me looking after him. After 9 years, the only time we ever get on each others accounts is because we need a favor, or we want to leave a message.

Honestly, it caused a problem once, because we were playing Diablo 2 and some a*****e that I had on my friends list decided to start to hit on me one day when my husband was perming some characters for me. The guy had never done that before, but my husband didn't know that. So, needless to say, he was a bit shaken up by the time I got home from work, imagining the worst and all. I finally got him to calm down enough to tell me why he was so upset and he took my to show me the chat log. The a*****e on the other end had left all kinds of cyber garbage, his e-mail, and a link to a yahoo profile. I was shaking I was so angery. My husband had answered him somewhere along the line to let the guy know that it wasn't me behind the character, and the dude e-mailed him back saying that it didn't matter. To make a long story not quite so long, I e-mailed the guy to threaten his life, since he had all his info on his profile, and I downloaded a program that could kill the dude instantly if he came into the same Diablo room I was in. rofl

After that, my husband and I came to be closer because he realized how silly he was that he even entertained the idea I would be unfaithful to him, and I felt the twistedly happy female emotions of knowing he could be jealous of me, and saw firsthand how it might affect him if he thought I was going somewhere. wink
PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 3:12 pm


Eltanin Sadachbia
My husband and I share all of our passwords, and we notify each other when we change them. I have no problem with him looking at what I'm doing, and he doesn't mind me looking after him. After 9 years, the only time we ever get on each others accounts is because we need a favor, or we want to leave a message.

Honestly, it caused a problem once, because we were playing Diablo 2 and some a*****e that I had on my friends list decided to start to hit on me one day when my husband was perming some characters for me. The guy had never done that before, but my husband didn't know that. So, needless to say, he was a bit shaken up by the time I got home from work, imagining the worst and all. I finally got him to calm down enough to tell me why he was so upset and he took my to show me the chat log. The a*****e on the other end had left all kinds of cyber garbage, his e-mail, and a link to a yahoo profile. I was shaking I was so angery. My husband had answered him somewhere along the line to let the guy know that it wasn't me behind the character, and the dude e-mailed him back saying that it didn't matter. To make a long story not quite so long, I e-mailed the guy to threaten his life, since he had all his info on his profile, and I downloaded a program that could kill the dude instantly if he came into the same Diablo room I was in. rofl

After that, my husband and I came to be closer because he realized how silly he was that he even entertained the idea I would be unfaithful to him, and I felt the twistedly happy female emotions of knowing he could be jealous of me, and saw firsthand how it might affect him if he thought I was going somewhere. wink


That is funny. It is good to know that misunderstandings like this can help brong people together. When my fiance broke up with me I had a fling and for about a week. I felt so guitly, even though I was single at that time, that a few months after he got home and realized he was stupid, I told him. He was sad and I was bawling my eyes out. But he was sad because he had left me. He said, "What else were you supposed to do?" That caught me off guard. But he knows if I ever cheated {Which I won't} I would eventually crack and tell him.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 4:12 pm


Ohhhh. That depends on how mentally stable the person is and if they're prone to bouts of revenge. I love my sister to death, but she's HORRIBLE about breaking things in retaliation for small arguments...she's NEVER getting my passwords. Ex boyfriend that was a junkie? NO. Current one wouldn't be an issue at all. He's mellow and wouldn't do anything with my crap, well, except maybe steal my gold on WoW. <_<
PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 5:10 pm


Nope. :3
I don't have a boyfriend, but I'm pretty protective about my passwords.
I'm a private person and I don't want other people snooping in my business.
So if someone ever needs to get into my account for anything, I'll usually try to find a way to manually enter it myself before giving it out.
The strange thing is that people get really offended sometimes when I don't give out my passwords. ._.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 7:30 pm


brainnsoup
Nope. :3
I don't have a boyfriend, but I'm pretty protective about my passwords.
I'm a private person and I don't want other people snooping in my business.
So if someone ever needs to get into my account for anything, I'll usually try to find a way to manually enter it myself before giving it out.
The strange thing is that people get really offended sometimes when I don't give out my passwords. ._.


Hey, it's perfectly understandable. I would never in a million give my password out to anyone before I met my husband.

He started the PW sharing when we were dating, and told me that he would never hide anything from me. He didn't even ask for mine. razz

Then after we married, I felt that turn about is fair, because I didn't have anything to hide anyway. I would probably still be keeping mine Fort Knoxed if it wasn't for him opening up.

If he didn't share his with me, I probably would never have thought much about it. rolleyes
PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 8:42 pm


I know all of my husband's passwords.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 8:49 pm


My sister has my passwords...actually she gets really mad because I won't let her see my email, but she could hack it if she wanted. And yet she doesn't. She's totally trustworthy. ^_^

Oh, and I gots her passwords, but I don't really have a reason to use them. The only reason we really exchanged them is because we share computers some times, and if one of us died we'd want the other to let our online friends know. We don't have a reason to keep them from each other.
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