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So here I am, watching a fairly explicit music video, filled with scantly clad women doing naughty activities with each other, and i find myself pining.

Now, i think, "which do i like better? My naked girlfriend, or my girlfriend in sexy lingerie?"

Now, if she were completely naked, I could see every thing that i want to see-- that's the point of being naked, of course.
But if she were wearing lingerie, i would be equally, if not more stimulated.

is this because i happen to enjoy the fabric (which is always a possibility, as i like lace and satin) or is the fact that i can't see everything intriguing?

I have often pondered this fact-- why do we love bras and panties so much? I have reasoned it something like opening presents on your birthday or on christmas, so it could be a sort of conditioned reaction. Or it could be that because we are forced to guess or even just imagine what lies beneath that thin layer of fabric, using our minds for such a thing, we are more stimulated?

Any thoughts on the subject?
Is it awkward to have me say "stimulated" so many times?

so I'm not the only one who thinks seeing a girl in an extremely skimpy bathing suit is hotter then seeing a girl naked.

I was getting worried there.

they are both hot either way.

but as for me I would rather move the bottem part of the bikini out of the way and ******** her like that.

But I am a pretty wierd person so it's probably just me.

That's true^^...

I think it's because yeah, conditioned reaction, and also, it's fun to imagine, because you can imagine just about anything (especially if you have a little hint)

Lingerie and other coverings tease and promise, just as a high slit ankle-length skirt can be more enticing than a micro-mini.
Suggestive accoutrements are not just a glimpse of flesh , but a glimpse of character as well. Also some garments and accesories can do double duty as sex toy for play

I never grew up with quite the same taboos on nudity that western culture usually faces so I know my perspective may be a bit different

You have something there, with the crotchless panties idea.
all the others are still removed... Although, i suppose you could just undo the one side, and kinda have them hanging off a bit...

hrmmm... when's my next paycheck?

by crotchless do you mean the leather zipper panties. because those creape me out...

and I don't know about edible panties... food and sex shouldn't mix unless its pizza... I like pizza.

breakaway snaps sound hot though.

No, I mean the other styles of snaps and ties. There are the one where you can just detatch or remove the crotch.
Fredicks of Hollywood is a pretty mainstream store wher you can get crotchless and peek-a-boo crotch lingerie. They also had some pretty corset, garter and pany sets a while back.
The also have the tackiest wedding panties I have ever seen.

Maybe it's just me, but feathers lights and music on a thong is way beyond good taste.
Speaking of taste, eddible panties are basically fruit roll-ups.Not something I want to be feeling of tasting there

There really are alot of options available wih lingerie and such they might be harder to find if you live in a conservative area

Lady gaga scares the s**t out of me.
And people wonder why i like Ke$ha more?