xWitchHazel
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- Posted: Fri, 26 Sep 2014 02:45:44 +0000
So, I really want some honest advice on this please...
My "friend" of ten years pulled aside another friend of mine stating that she didn't like my tattoo and thought it was silly that I would get a tattoo for a child I miscarried.. She then stated its even more stupid that I had named my baby Raven without ever having the gender confirmed.
Obviously the other friend called me immediately to warn me that maybe I shouldn't associate with this other friend.
What do I do? I confront the friend that said this about me. Her only response was that 10 weeks isn't a baby, my baby isn't as important as her child she's about to have because she has REAL responsibilities and that my baby was a clump of cells, let alone having the gender confirmed. She then stated it would be fine if it happened later on but my baby wasn't a REAL baby and to get over it... She then said it was her opinion and I shouldn't be mad about her opinion...
I really don't know how to handle this.. this miscarriage is VERY recent and I'm still grieving. I loved my baby as much as any mommy and would do anything to of had the chance to have those real responsibilities but couldn't help that I don't...
My "friend" of ten years pulled aside another friend of mine stating that she didn't like my tattoo and thought it was silly that I would get a tattoo for a child I miscarried.. She then stated its even more stupid that I had named my baby Raven without ever having the gender confirmed.
Obviously the other friend called me immediately to warn me that maybe I shouldn't associate with this other friend.
What do I do? I confront the friend that said this about me. Her only response was that 10 weeks isn't a baby, my baby isn't as important as her child she's about to have because she has REAL responsibilities and that my baby was a clump of cells, let alone having the gender confirmed. She then stated it would be fine if it happened later on but my baby wasn't a REAL baby and to get over it... She then said it was her opinion and I shouldn't be mad about her opinion...
I really don't know how to handle this.. this miscarriage is VERY recent and I'm still grieving. I loved my baby as much as any mommy and would do anything to of had the chance to have those real responsibilities but couldn't help that I don't...