Eisefin
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- Posted: Mon, 27 Aug 2012 20:56:36 +0000
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Eisefin
This was no revenge scheme. This was your way of getting back what you wanted, which was the attention and desire of your ex-boyfriend. A healthy-minded individual would have been able to heal and forgive the transgressions that happened to you in a previous relationship because letting go and only doing what’s best for yourself to make yourself happy without them is being healed and no longer the victim.
Subconsciously, I don’t think you were ever ready to let go of him. There were other ways you could have messed up their relationship, but you chose to jump right into having sex with him more than once. So, yeah, you just wanted to have him again – even fleetingly.
And now that you have this on your record, you are officially as low and as much of a scumbag as he is. Do you think this is a highlight of your life? Using your body as a sexual tool to make people break up for your own selfish satisfaction? How do you suppose any of your following suitors are going to feel about that? Do you think they are even going to want to be with you knowing that if they screw up somehow you might use your body in some way to “get revenge”?
Honestly, you’re no better than he was for cheating on you. That’s even worse, really.
Subconsciously, I don’t think you were ever ready to let go of him. There were other ways you could have messed up their relationship, but you chose to jump right into having sex with him more than once. So, yeah, you just wanted to have him again – even fleetingly.
And now that you have this on your record, you are officially as low and as much of a scumbag as he is. Do you think this is a highlight of your life? Using your body as a sexual tool to make people break up for your own selfish satisfaction? How do you suppose any of your following suitors are going to feel about that? Do you think they are even going to want to be with you knowing that if they screw up somehow you might use your body in some way to “get revenge”?
Honestly, you’re no better than he was for cheating on you. That’s even worse, really.
Using myself for my own "selfish satisfaction" to make them miserable as I was isnt revenge? rolleyes
I wanted his attention so I got it. I had sex with him because I wanted to and I succeeded in making them miserable in the end.
I'm not looking to get married or some s**t like that. If no one is going to marry me because of what I did then thats perfectly fine.
Who said anything about marriage? So you like the idea of people only coming to you because they know you’ll just be a nice, quick ******** and nothing more? Maybe living life as a morally compromised narcissist is easy for you considering that’s your own mental ailment.