How visible is your sexuality?

[untilthegothicrevolution]

I'm kinda goth at school but with all the rainbows I wear I'm commonly mistaken for emo. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion of course, so I guess it's pretty obvious for me. Or at least, it SHOULD be! I used to be a transvestite bisexual, but now that I've started dressing like my gender (for the most part, I still don't like skirts) I've replaced my haircut and cargo pants for rainbow wristbands, pride necklaces and belts. Yet I'm still asked what sexuality I am. It's come to the point where I take the name "f**" as a compliment, and yell "THEY GET IT!!"
I think I'm trying too hard. Either that or I simply get too much enjoyment out of pride things. xd
Peace love and pride, my dears~ heart  

[Hiacinth]

I'm about as visible as air. Everyone assumes I'm straight, and people will even argue with me sometimes when I tell them I'm not >.< I'm bi, and I think I may be asexual as well, and I'm too shy to flirt with girls (or anyone else) as I live in the bible belt and attend a private Catholic college. My clothing choices are usually just a t-shirt and jeans and a hoodie, and all I have as far as pride stuff is one little rainbow pin. Most of my friends and my parents know, but I think even they forget sometimes. It is what it is. Bi erasure sucks.  

[Dionnysia]

I don't really "advertise" my sexuality, though I do like rainbow accessories like bracelets and earrings.  

[Bao Sanniang]

Considering I usually dress in a very unisex way, not very most of the time unless you see my underwear.  

[WritingErick]

Visible, but I probably won't burn your eyes out sweatdrop

I have a "gay" voice, and "feminine" qualities to my mannerisms. I enjoy the "masculine" and "feminine" qualities of myself, and most people usually know except for a few here and there who are either kind enough to ask, don't assume, or maybe I'm not as visible as I think I am.

With all that said once I stopped caring what others thought of my sexuality(Including people in the LGBTQ community) I realized that my feet walk in the gray line between "super visible", and "Invisible". However that's only my own perception of myself, and I get mixed answers from others.  

[Isabella Kiyoshi]

So far barely anyone I know realized that I'm bi/pansexual. The people I did tell were surprised that I am. The only person who did figure it out was my mom, so I guess I'm fairly invisible  

[Maniacs Symphony]

Pretty out there, haha.  

[Scissors83]

Apparently very visible because that is pretty much one of the first things people ask me.  

[VeganIncubus]

My gayness level is over 85,000. Everyone within a 200 mile radius is immediately turned into a raging queer. Rainbows sprout from every fountain, and unicorns gallop the streets.


 

[InoRoux]

Hmn, I'll get back to you the first chance I get to see myself in the eye of the general public... ninja

Only my other LGBT friends probably got the hint that Gender matters not to me.

My best friend definitely found out...and the public. I probably look like a boring normal person who wears crazy coloured converse.
 

[TigerLilyChick]

Not visible. With the bi erasure and only being out to a few friends from college, my sexuality isn't visible. Plus, I'm not visible in general and the only place to get bi pride stuff would be online, and that's after sifting through the "bi pride" stuff that are the bi pride colors.  

[Dreamsy Sweet]

It's difficult to tell really, and I don't have a problem with it either. I act neutral with everyone and get flirted with by all sorts of genders... considering that I think I'm seen as a pretty open and accepting person so people aren't afraid of backlash if it turned out I was straight or hella gay. I'm flattered usually when anyone shows interest, but when it comes to appearing queer to the general public that it's a bit... wrong? For that general public to be looking for stereotypical cues to gauge sexuality or gender.  

[Elijaey]

First, I'd like to say that I really enjoy this question because I feel like it's something that does not get to be talked about enough.

And second, hm..

I don't really think there is anything that I do or own to truly display my sexuality. It's not that I try to hide it either. I mean, I rock an afro, I've got a sturdy, masculine stride for a woman, I dress gender queer-like and I openly go gaga over gals. I think I scream LGBT ALERT when I walk into a room, so long as someone from the community is in the room? LOL.

But seriously. I don't hide it, but I don't parade it. If someone was to ask or make a reference to it, I'd gladly tell them.

I actually don't own anything rainbow, though. Besides coloring materials. Not because I do not support the LGBT community or anything like that because I'm well apart of and informed of current events in the community, but I guess I've just never invested in buying anything rainbow.

I hope I was able to explain everything well? sweatdrop  

[Infinite_Randomness]

I don't think its very visible. I don't feel very feminine when I'm around other (conventionally) feminine females, but feel feminine around guys. (This effect can be increased or lessened depending on my style atm)

Also, my style can vary anywhere from responsible young lady who looks like a college professor, to a college freshman. (Some masculine clothes made to look more femme, like plaid button ups, and boots, but with leggings and a thick belt,, hoodies, but with leggings and obvious jewelry)

I feel like some people may get 'queer' vibes from me, but then again, sometimes, I feel queer (as in, unbelievably self-conscious and just strange) myself. *shrugs*

I asked like 3 queer buddies before and they said no, but that was a very small sample size. :/ That and of course, sometimes people answer such questions differently when assessing the person by which they are being questioned. gonk