That's true. Cats don't belong ontop of people's heads.
Okay, so there are different options here. You could add a demonbow or angelbow (whichever you prefer) to your back to fill up space near your head.
You can also put a nitemare parasol up above your head. Unfortunately tektek does not have that image available.
The main problem is that because of your hair style, the little bits of hair in the back always stick up out of the hat unattractively. Therefore, it rules out a majority of options.