The power dynamics make it so that sometimes someone trying to be trans-race can be accidentally racist or disrespectful to the culture they wish to adopt by fetishizing it and what not. Especially if it is someone of a culture with more power going into a culture of less. There is a history of racism and ignorance, of which the other culture can only enter into the powerful culture via fetishization. (Fetishization is inherently racist.) I hope we can do a little better.
And then of course people go in respectfully and like it too. But it's just that they have to be careful. I'd say that bottle of war has a point, but my personal take, is that the people who fetishize a new culture taking it to the extreme can wind up being the person who actually respects the culture in the end. I'm not saying its not problematic, but in this society, it can be the gateway to things.
So, do learn other languages, enjoy parts of other cultures, but don't fetishize them. Be respectful at all times. Getting excited because "it's Japanese" versus whichever.
I will have to disagree with you. There is nothing wrong with liking products of a different culture, enjoying Amelie, Yann Tiersen's music, Nightwish or Naruto. There's nothing wrong with enjoying Korean Dramas, and wanting to learn a new language. I think it is actually problematic to avoid other cultures completely because that just lends to more ignorance and less understanding.
But I agree, cultures are not playthings or toys. Ignorant worship is systemic racism. For example, "ooh, kung fu movies are so cool" --> *sees chinese person* *assumes they know Kung Fu automatically, and that every chinese person is the same* - that is racist. Generalizing people ain't cool.
I would also argue that people who go to live in a different country and take on that culture get less s**t than trans-gender folks. There is plenty of precedent for that, and at a certain point, living there long enough, the identity is accepted (even if not by everyone) as they are a Whatever-Whatever. It's definitely more awkward though depending on the country, the melanin content of the population and the melanin content of the person switching cultures. I mean, if someone from a different country moved to New York and has been living there for over ten years, I'd consider part of their identity as a New Yorker, and they would have taken on some New York culture, too.
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Class, too, is a consideration. People must learn to embrace their social class. It's insulting and degrading to see a wealthy person acting as if they're a product of urban poverty, or to see people in the lower strata of society adopt the mannerisms and aspirations of other classes.
This is spot on, however, and needs to considered. Even if it makes you uncomfortable, it's a fact. There are power dynamics between cultures and classes.
Becoming something else is not going to happen, but adopting something else as a part of your identity is possible. But it is important to recognize that there is a power dynamic, to respect others and NOT to generalize.