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When a narcissist calls someone else a narcissist is that 'gas lighting'?

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Hardy, har, har! blaugh
My father loves to call me a narcissist.
Who knows, maybe he's right, but he's also delusional. 4laugh
No, that's called projecting.

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No, that's called projecting.

why woudl a narcist project his "superiority" complex on someone else? its not seen as a weakness by the owner;
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No, that's called projecting.

why woudl a narcist project his "superiority" complex on someone else? its not seen as a weakness by the owner;
That's not the point. If the narcissist feels like someone else is taking the spotlight or if he feels abused by them (not getting attention or 'respect') he will accuse them of being the narcissist. That is projecting his qualities onto someone else. He's not the narcissist, he's the normal one now being abused by the (not) narcissist.
I don't consider it gas lighting because gas lighting is purposeful. Projecting is unconsciously done.

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Ratgod
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No, that's called projecting.

why woudl a narcist project his "superiority" complex on someone else? its not seen as a weakness by the owner;
That's not the point. If the narcissist feels like someone else is taking the spotlight or if he feels abused by them (not getting attention or 'respect') he will accuse them of being the narcissist. That is projecting his qualities onto someone else. He's not the narcissist, he's the normal one now being abused by the (not) narcissist.
I don't consider it gas lighting because gas lighting is purposeful. Projecting is unconsciously done.

gaslighting is usualy done purposely yeah, and also, usualy one programs the target to.. some weakness or "youre a idiot, you cant do anything right" or make them think they lost their mind;

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Ratgod
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No, that's called projecting.

why woudl a narcist project his "superiority" complex on someone else? its not seen as a weakness by the owner;
That's not the point. If the narcissist feels like someone else is taking the spotlight or if he feels abused by them (not getting attention or 'respect') he will accuse them of being the narcissist. That is projecting his qualities onto someone else. He's not the narcissist, he's the normal one now being abused by the (not) narcissist.
I don't consider it gas lighting because gas lighting is purposeful. Projecting is unconsciously done.


aye, well said.

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