TTC and Adoption Support O5.29.2O15

What about you?

I'm trying to conceive!	15.2%	[ 96 ]
I have a baby!	7.0%	[ 44 ]
I'm TTC #2+!	3.3%	[ 21 ]
I don't want kids	22.2%	[ 140 ]
I'm pregnant!	7.8%	[ 49 ]
I'm infertile	5.1%	[ 32 ]
I'm just voting~	39.5%	[ 249 ]
Total Votes:			[ 631 ]

[leo-amy]

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Pink Peppercorn

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So sorry about being benched again. I hope the flare ups don't cause you too much discomfort and it passes quickly.
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[II a r c II]

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I am no longer TTC, or NTNP. Adoption will likely be out of the question as of now, also. I will still be here to support everyone who comes this way and make an effort to keep the thread active.
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[Pink Peppercorn]

II a r c II

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I am no longer TTC, or NTNP. Adoption will likely be out of the question as of now, also. I will still be here to support everyone who comes this way and make an effort to keep the thread active.
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What happened, if you don't mind my asking?

[II a r c II]

Pink Peppercorn

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For lack of a better way to put it... my husband told me he's leaving me.
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[MrsHanaway]

II a r c II

Pink Peppercorn

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For lack of a better way to put it... my husband told me he's leaving me.
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Omg I'm so sorry! What is wrong? If it's something you want to talk about, I'm here to listen. =(

[Pink Peppercorn]

II a r c II

Pink Peppercorn

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For lack of a better way to put it... my husband told me he's leaving me.
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Oh my goodness, I am so sorry || arc ||.

[All and Sundry]

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I am so sorry for what is going on Arc. Just know us ladies are here for you if you ever need to get something out.


Angel- I'm right there with you on giving up.

After a full day of crying left and right, I'm more stressed than ever.
Did tests, had two separate appointments, bloodwork, ultrasound, whatever.
My OBGYN, doctor, and then another doctor asked to come in and review my information gave me a verdict of less than a 2% chance of pregnancy. The issues I have with being unable to hold proper ovulation, on top of cysts coming back. I was told that due to how painful the cysts are that having a miscarriage would be high. Yeah. Just too much. I know people who have had miscarriages and still borns. I could not deal with that at this point, if ever.
They're referring me to a psychiatrist to hope to help out with the emotional stress and breakdowns regarding all of this.
My doctor told me that in my state they will not do a hysterectomy on me unless the cysts get bad enough. They told me to get on a 10 year birth control and try again. The only caused more crying with them trying to tell me to wait and try again in a few years, or wait til my 6 year old is out of the house.

And honestly, I am so scared to keep trying. I'm tired of the appointments. I'm tired of negative tests. I'm tired of everything dealing with this.

[dont buy gcash]

All of you are the most whiniest people on gaia ever

[hecatesheretic]

Hello all! I'm Hecate. heart I've been TTC since November and I was just looking for someone to talk to. As it is AF is two days late, but I'm only about 10 DPO right now. I wanted to test sooo bad earlier even though I knew I was just a bit early, I did anyway and it was a defective test. sweatdrop No test line or anything. So I took it as a sign and decided to find someone to chit chat with instead and now here I am! I think DH is getting a bit tired of baby talk. We're both just so tired of trying. I have a feeling he tries to distract me with other things because if he doesn't all I'll babble about is getting pregnant. Men just don't understand how the idea of having a baby downright CONSUMES us when we decide we're ready. rolleyes

[spacekitten]

hecatesheretic

Hello all! I'm Hecate. heart I've been TTC since November and I was just looking for someone to talk to. As it is AF is two days late, but I'm only about 10 DPO right now. I wanted to test sooo bad earlier even though I knew I was just a bit early, I did anyway and it was a defective test. sweatdrop No test line or anything. So I took it as a sign and decided to find someone to chit chat with instead and now here I am! I think DH is getting a bit tired of baby talk. We're both just so tired of trying. I have a feeling he tries to distract me with other things because if he doesn't all I'll babble about is getting pregnant. Men just don't understand how the idea of having a baby downright CONSUMES us when we decide we're ready. rolleyes

Welcome! I started TTC (well, NTNP) at the start of this year. FX and .*.baby dust.*. for you! xd

[AngelBiscuits]

I'm so sorry arc :c That's gotta be stressful.

I still haven't gotten a call back about my appointments so I'm probably just going to wait until the one I've already got in April at this point.

I got some progesterone cream the other day to see if it would help. I won't really notice anything for a while yet but the stuff I got is lovely so far. It's not greasy or anything and doesn't have a strong smell. Hopefully I'll notice some improvement sooner rather than later.

[hecatesheretic]

spacekitten

Thanks! Same to you!
So AF is now 5 days late, I'm 13 DPO and still BFN. I'm going nuts. crying

[Pink Peppercorn]

hecatesheretic

So AF is now 5 days late, I'm 13 DPO and still BFN. I'm going nuts. crying

How are you confirming ovulation?

[hecatesheretic]

Pink Peppercorn

OPKs and CM. This month I went by CM alone. I have a pretty good idea of when I ovulate now, it's always a little later in my cycle, around 16-20 days.

Also I'm pretty sure AF showed up today and I'm pretty devastated.

[Pink Peppercorn]

hecatesheretic

Pink Peppercorn

OPKs and CM. This month I went by CM alone. I have a pretty good idea of when I ovulate now, it's always a little later in my cycle, around 16-20 days.

Also I'm pretty sure AF showed up today and I'm pretty devastated.

Keep in mind that OPK's only detect an LH surge. It is possible to have a surge and not ovulate and some women have been known to have several surges a month. And cycles can change at anytime. I usually O around CD20-25 but this month I O'd at CD15. I highly recommend temping and charting your BBT. It is so invaluable in the knowledge you learn about your body and it is the only way to pinpoint O. You can also give "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" a read. Great book and very helpful.

Sorry about AF. sad