Drug Induced Euphoria
SinfulGuillotine
I'm not really a fan of the theory that good sex comes from not having had it for a while.
In my experience, really good sex is with someone who knows you, knows what you like, knows you body (and vice versa) and with someone you're well-practised with.
That's not to say that really sexually-charged experiences can't be good just because of pure carnal desire or whatever, but....I dunno. It's a different kind of good.
I feel the same way.
Every time my husband comes to visit, its strange at first. Him in person and him in real life, are like two different people. And since we hardly ever get to see one another, its just awkward for me. I'm one of those people who have to get to know someone and be around them, and he just isn;t around for me to be like that with. For me it's not even a matter of feeling awkward of uncomfortable. I've had enough casual sex in my day to not really be bothered by being intimate with someone I don't know inside and out yet.
Mostly it's just that sex is a skill, and like any other skill, it gets better with practise. And since each person is different, being "good at sex" with one person is going to require some practise, communication, and exploration with that specific person before it's likely to be completely mind-blowing. There's just something really saitisfying about not having to worry about telling someone what you do or don't like, or talking them through doing something you want them to do, or reminding them not to do that one thing you don't like but everyone else they've ever ******** seems to love.