Hey guys, how are you all doing? I'm going to just introduce myself, because I'm interested in keeping up with this thread. I'm Techno and I'm the proud owner of my beautiful Kittybaby.
I'm naturally dominant, but my relationship with my Kittybaby is the first relationship I've been a part of that really has allowed me to expand on it and experiment with my sexual urges. I've been taking the dominance outside of the bedroom to a MUCH slower degree (but I'd like to really amp it up), things like ordering her to lie on her back randomly, not allowing her to talk or make noises for a time, making her cook for me, making her take her clothes off during random daytime activities. We have a little bit of kittenplay oriented into our dynamics as well, which also carries itself outside of the bedroom in some interesting ways.
We'll be living alone together for the summer, and I was hoping you guys could give me some training tips to boost my confidence/creativity when it comes to having her do things for me, sexual or no.
What have your D's/Masters/Mistresses made you do outside of the bedroom that was pleasing? Interesting? Challenging? "Humiliating?" Painful? Playful? If you and your D/Master/Mistress do any type of animalplay, what types of things have you done outside of the bedroom that relate to that, and what are some things your D/Master/Mistress has ordered you to do that relates to or is similar to animalplay?
And for Dominants, what are some things you've ordered your submissives to do, sexual or no?
It's taken me a while to get this far with her, and it's really boosted my confidence, and my sex drive, but there are still times when I don't feel confident enough (I think maybe this is caused by my past partners' repulsion to the idea) to order her to do things for me, and therefore I lose the drive to come up with ideas. I know it really hurts her and is kind of confusing when this happens. I was hoping that some ideas from other subs would give me some confidence to come up with more ideas to keep my orders consistent. I'm easing myself into making orders a thing of second nature, but have not quite reached that goal. Hopefully I will soon, as we'll have enough time to ourselves that I won't have to hold back!
I used to practice deep-throating popsicles. It was much colder than the real thing, but now I can do it without gagging too much. My husband is definitely happy about that.
