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I'm not entirely sure I could call it cheating. But I would be really uncomfortable if my SO was to do that.

So as it stands, I think the best idea is for you to hammer out whether you're comfortable with it or not and actually talk to your SO about it. Regardless if it ends up feeling like cheating, let them know that it does make you uncomfortable to know they participate in the smut. That way it can be talked out and probably resolved 3nodding

On a side note, no I don't think this is too controlling or anything. Just because an idea makes one uncomfortable doesn't mean it has to be acted on and made controlling. Relationships are about a little give and take and being able to make one another comfortable within that relationship. Beyond that, the subject matter is quite within that grey area of what should and shouldn't be done.

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A tad bit contradictory coming from the one-night-stand chick who flirts with every man in sight in reaction to losing arguments and claims every declared disposition to be a form of manipulation and emotional abuse.


Your head is so far up your a** you're never going to see daylight again. Seriously.
It's not 'contradictory' in the least, it's not my fault you're so ******** stupid that you think complimenting people = flirting
or think that calling me fat, a slut, a b***h, etc every time when you started fights isn't emotional abuse.
You also tried to guilt trip me (threatening to cut yourself if I didn't tell you s**t as an example), you were controlling beyond belief, and you're just an arrogant piece of s**t on top.

**Not to mention, you telling some guy it was okay to rape me because I'm "such a slut"?
And also saying you would burn down my house and kill all my pets if I didn't send your sweater to you.
Yeah, you're such a great guy like you always claimed. rolleyes

Nice to see you finally reply to one of my posts after stalking my posts for months on end though. Progressssss.
And don't even try to say you weren't, because the tips you've given on multiple posts proves otherwise.

P.s, I took a picture for you.
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I would find it to be cheating.

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I don't think rplaying is really cheating. Unless you're taking your character as yourself. I think it's best to ask yourself, "Do I really want to have sex/kiss the person behind the character?" If you're just into the story, that's not cheating. My boyfriend likes it when I read erotic novels. I know he was into porn awhile before I met him. I told him, "I wouldn't like you looking at other girls. I want to be the only girl that turns you on." That may be me just being a selfish lover, but he doesn't mind. He's selfish too. I think it's best to talk to your partner & draw out the lines together.
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*grabs popcorn* o3o Nice.

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oh hey there! u o u;; fancy of you to come check up on things ah. i apologize. i've had a stressful week and finals are almost done. i will get a reply to you once i finally have time to breathe.

oh good lord though what is happening on my thread.

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*grabs popcorn* o3o Nice.

Sorry to disappoint, but I highly doubt he'll reply. But maybe he's in the mood to be an unintelligent idiot. *shrugs*
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*grabs popcorn* o3o Nice.

Sorry to disappoint, but I highly doubt he'll reply. But maybe he's in the mood to be an unintelligent idiot. *shrugs*

*throws popcorn on ground* emo it's ok.....

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oh hey there! u o u;; fancy of you to come check up on things ah. i apologize. i've had a stressful week and finals are almost done. i will get a reply to you once i finally have time to breathe.

oh good lord though what is happening on my thread.


                                                  Naw, bro, I ain't hasslin' you for a post, I am just contributing to the conversation. Don't worry, it's all fine.

                                                  I believe you have become the perfect set-up for a melodramatic internet couple to fight over. This is a little bit stupid and reminds me of my bullshit years of highschool. HOOLY OUT // backflips away //

I personally think the best thing to do when getting into a relationship with someone is to discuss what is/isn't cheating and coming to a compromise, if needed. Because what is cheating to you might not be the same as what it is to someone else. Just talk to him about it.

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