vietnomnom
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- Posted: Sat, 13 Oct 2012 05:57:07 +0000
Oh lord, here's a fun one for you all~
So, my boyfriend of 2 years+ and I were talking with his ex. She then mentioned his other ex talking s**t, and the details, basically.
They said that the only reason why my boyfriend is with me, is because I'm young, and he "likes little girls", lol. Which is ridiculous. He's dated plenty of girls his age, some even older, and some younger, I just happen to be the youngest. He also spends time with me and my 3-4 year old sister. NOT because he is a "*****", but because we're family, and he likes to spend time with all of us. They also said that I probably contribute to the fact that he now has the initiative to be a father towards his son. Which is true. I do help him with that. He does love his son, and wants to be in his life, he's just not very experienced with kids and the like.
I called out the ex she was talking about, but she denied everything.
My question is... where should I go from here?
Should I just block and delete them both, and leave it up to my boyfriend to communicate?
(Sorry for the confusing "ex 1 and ex 2" thing, I avoid mentioning names just in case.)
EDIT: Ex 1 is the mommeh of his child, and the lady who told us about the drama-fest. Such a confusing situation. I am debating blocking them both, but wouldn't want to mess up anything for my boyfriend and his child.
So, my boyfriend of 2 years+ and I were talking with his ex. She then mentioned his other ex talking s**t, and the details, basically.
They said that the only reason why my boyfriend is with me, is because I'm young, and he "likes little girls", lol. Which is ridiculous. He's dated plenty of girls his age, some even older, and some younger, I just happen to be the youngest. He also spends time with me and my 3-4 year old sister. NOT because he is a "*****", but because we're family, and he likes to spend time with all of us. They also said that I probably contribute to the fact that he now has the initiative to be a father towards his son. Which is true. I do help him with that. He does love his son, and wants to be in his life, he's just not very experienced with kids and the like.
I called out the ex she was talking about, but she denied everything.
My question is... where should I go from here?
Should I just block and delete them both, and leave it up to my boyfriend to communicate?
(Sorry for the confusing "ex 1 and ex 2" thing, I avoid mentioning names just in case.)
EDIT: Ex 1 is the mommeh of his child, and the lady who told us about the drama-fest. Such a confusing situation. I am debating blocking them both, but wouldn't want to mess up anything for my boyfriend and his child.