Andante.Lola
So my boyfriend and I were having a conversation about my social habits the other day. Now, he is a music teacher and, as such, is rather extroverted. He talks with people all day long and actually really likes and craves social interaction. He tells me that how I function makes basically no sense... but I figure there has to be someone else out there like me.
In general, I consider myself introverted. I value my time alone. After being in a complicated or prolonged social situation, I need to recharge and be alone for awhile...
... but I'm actually most comfortable with public speaking. I can talk in front of a group of people, the bigger the better, about anything all. day. long.
Speaking one-on-one with people, especially people I know, makes me anxious. I do better with strangers or people I know I won't have to see again.
Surely, there's someone else who understands how I feel, right?
It's normal that he doesn't really "get it" especially if he's only experienced an extroverted way of life. It doesn't make sense to them, half the time it doesn't make sense to us either lol.
I've come to realize that I'm what some would call an introvert. I, like you, am more exhausted with time with people. Social interaction is nice and I learned how to deal with it but it's tiring even if I enjoy the people I'm with. I actually do better with either one-on-one or public speaking. Once I get to know people I'm usually more comfortable with them than strangers.