thepersonish3
Been listening to the Beatles Radio on Pandora for hours. Philosohy class telling me I only have one life. I always knew this but the ramifications just hit me really hard.
I need to tell her I'm falling for her. As soon as we get out of class on Monday. We've been eatting lunch together everyday togther for weeks and it almost always goes well.
I can't stay at the same level anymore I need to do something and stop repressing all these emotions and feelings I've been wanting to express more and more everyday...
TLDR.....Lifes too short, and I feel like I need to advance myself and this relationship past its current level. Good idea or bad idea?
The thing is I've been going super...extremely slow so that I wouldn't get shot down. But I don't want to be slow anymore, its finally coming to that point where I can't take it anymore. And I'm not sure if I'm in my right mind to make such a choice. Or if its exactly what I've been needing to do.
Tell her.
Why?
Because there are a few things that could happen:
- She says she likes you. From then on you either stay forever together or end up breaking up. One or two may have their heart broken in the process. You get over it and start liking someone else.
- She says she doesn't like you. Your heart is broken, and you either stay good friends or you avoid each other. You get over it and start liking someone else.
You say you feel like you're falling for her: tell her you like her before you're in too deep and have too much of a hard time getting over her or even being able to tell her. If she likes you too and tells herself you don't and changes interests to go out with someone else, you're screwed. So really, you should take a deep breath and tell her you like her before it's too late.
Remember, the best case scenario is being with her forever and stay in love with her forever, which would be awesome, and the worst case scenario is getting over a break-up/rejection. It's not too bad. Be brave!