dr-qpanz
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- Posted: Fri, 16 Jan 2009 04:23:18 +0000
Uuuuugh T.T Why am I posting this...
(guh)
OK. So basically...what the title says x.x I've got a boyfriend. He's...
- smart
- sweet
- kind
- sensitive
- cute/hot x3 like really really hot x.o
- and a blondie @_@
Yes. Anyway, how the hell do I tell him that I want to do, erm, bondage. With him. We have noooot actually have had sex yet, just the regular groping (I'm 17 =.= ) and such...and neither of us really are the...uh, types, seeming to be into that.
I mean just look at my picture xD I'm kind of a meek, artsy, geek-girl. All of my friends call me 'sweet' and 'shy' and 'adorable' but, uh, into being physically restrained O.o I don't think they'd understand that. All I know is that it really, really turns me on. And I'd like to do it sometime D:
Problem I have is more than just telling him (I usually can tell him anything, but I am terrified he'll think i'm creepy and run away =P ), but the fact he might not be into it -.- He does have...his things though. Like expressing an interest in me wearing cat ears/dressing up like a cat D:
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Second problem I have here is a more...logistics thing. I've read about people getting injured by that kind of stuff...how do I avoid it? I'm really not into the abuse/hardcore stuff, actually being hurt bothers me. But kind of non-violently being taken would be awesome o.o
Just...any...entry-level ideas? somethinggg? D: