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First let me start by saying thank you to everyone who replied.
About my friend:
I took the advice and discussed the situation with my friend who was having a problem with me canceling and missing dates. She had also been having some issues and explained how they were affecting her. We've reached a sorta tentative place and are building back to where we were before the big blowout.
About my Mom:
My mom is only in here mid-50's, and there hasn't really been anything clear about why she's falling so much. She goes for about three or four months without having trouble, then when it starts-- it lasts for about two months. She's had quite a few surgeries and trauma, so we're just going off of what we can to prevent falls now. Getting her a lower bed/mattress seems to help too (not having to stretch so far or over exert to get in bed.)
About the situation in general:
Yes, I text/call to let people know when something is happening/having to cancel.
If necessary I will do play by plays. It seems that I had misunderstood something that I'd scheduled (the gym) by misreading a message.
This week, I gave each of them a day or two exclusively in my schedule. I also have my husband taking care of a couple errands with my Mom so I can take some personal time and not feel like I have the world on my shoulders.
IN SHORT:
I feel so much better this week and am working on my time management and relationship.
THANKS EVERYONE~~
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