Knitsy
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- Posted: Wed, 05 Sep 2012 14:49:52 +0000
Soraanki
@ everyone::
Thanks for the greetings...
He is just...way to immature for his own good. He doesn't think about the baby...just about himself. It is really starting to get on my nerves. He thinks just because the baby is going to be here, that he should get back together with me to be a 'family'.
See I went through my parents divorcing twice, and I still think that both of my parents are fantastic. He doesn't think without a man, woman, and child, that a family life is possible.
What he doesn't get, is that if he doesn't cooperate with me, and realize that we live in a mommy-friendly state...and that with everything that he has given me that I could use in court...he could only be set on once a week visitation on MY time. But you know...I don't even know if he cares about the babys well being, when really that is ALL I have been caring about.
Thanks for the greetings...
He is just...way to immature for his own good. He doesn't think about the baby...just about himself. It is really starting to get on my nerves. He thinks just because the baby is going to be here, that he should get back together with me to be a 'family'.
See I went through my parents divorcing twice, and I still think that both of my parents are fantastic. He doesn't think without a man, woman, and child, that a family life is possible.
What he doesn't get, is that if he doesn't cooperate with me, and realize that we live in a mommy-friendly state...and that with everything that he has given me that I could use in court...he could only be set on once a week visitation on MY time. But you know...I don't even know if he cares about the babys well being, when really that is ALL I have been caring about.
My ex was like that. He treated me like garbage because he thought I would never think of leaving him, just because we had a family. He grew up with parents that pretty much hated each other, but who stayed together for the kids - now all their kids are grown and they are still together and they still hate each other. My parents were divorced when I was young, and I always saw the importance of your kids seeing you HAPPY rather than together the "right" way.