I haven't read this thread, so I'm sure something's been said like this already. But here goes anyway:
Really, I don't think there's anything morally wrong with kids having sex at that age. It's a biological thing, and it's understandable. However, I do think that it's a bad idea. Though sure, some kids that age will be ready for it, many others aren't. Some may think they are when they are in fact not - there's no easy way to tell if that's the case until you go and do it.
Here's the thing: You say you're 14 (and yes, I know you're not ready for sex your self, but this next bit still applies). You're 14, and you don't understand what life holds for you just around the corner, unless, of course, you are a rare outlier. Looking back, I was a complete idiot to believe what I did when I was 14. I've grown, I've matured, and fortunately I didn't do anything that I regret. I guess that's the advantage of being mild mannered, haha.
My point is, at that age, teens are still growing. You have a long way to go, and a lot to learn. Sex can be something purely casual, but it can also be something much deeper and emotional. That certainly was the case for me, and I feel it happened at the right time. Looking back, it's probably better that I didn't lose my virginity so early.
It's better if you wait. Grow a bit more first, even if you think you're ready. Just in case.
That's what I think, at any rate.
