Riviera de la Mancha
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- Posted: Tue, 09 Oct 2012 01:54:23 +0000
Keltoi Samurai
Riviera de la Mancha
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There are some people who deem those who are thinner than them to be "thin privileged." I got into it with this one girl who would make rude remarks to those who were thinner than her and basically saying that any one who is thin is privileged. She also blames her weight on everyone but herself.
I personally do not believe such a thing exists and unless you have a medical issue then it is all YOUR decisions that determine who you are and what you may look like in terms of weight.
I dislike when people blame their being overweight on other people. I mean, we all make our own decisions. If they do not like their weight they should do something about it.
What do YOU think about this?
Discuss "Thin privileges"
Do you believe it is a real thing?
Do you feel those who are thin are "privileged?"
Do you think people are responsible for their own weight?
I personally do not believe such a thing exists and unless you have a medical issue then it is all YOUR decisions that determine who you are and what you may look like in terms of weight.
I dislike when people blame their being overweight on other people. I mean, we all make our own decisions. If they do not like their weight they should do something about it.
What do YOU think about this?
Discuss "Thin privileges"
Do you believe it is a real thing?
Do you feel those who are thin are "privileged?"
Do you think people are responsible for their own weight?
First, by 'thin privilege', people are usually referring to certain benefits you collect just by being thin and conforming to expected norms. This is certainly true. Go to any singles bar, and let me know how many fat chicks get hit on. Look at the workers who are on their way up the management ladder. Let me know how many fat people you see in that group. Our society does confer unearned benefits to skinny people.
Second, I dislike it when people oversimplify things which are very complex, like weight gain. Yes, at a basic level, most people's weight is something in their purview of control. However, our scientific knowledge, which is continuing to expand in this subject, is leading us to the conclusion that there are alot of factors you don't decide. This being the case, by not addressing these factors and the very real possibility that these factors can coalesce to make some people's weight loss journey tougher than others, you don't do full service to the topic.
the funny thing about the thing you said about "fat chicks?" I actually ran into something a short time ago ( may have been a Cracked article, not sure ) that really provided evidence that the so-called "fat chicks" would actually be the way to go in such scenarios, something about how the thinner a woman is, the less likely she is to engage in coitus, or some such. the actual study mentioned a s**t ton of variables involved, like poor impulse control, or lack of self confidence leading to the seeking of validation through sex . . . oddly, never tied it to anything even vaguely positive, basically boiling down to "fatties ******** more, and that's terrible," but the study seems to indicate that, in the shallow world of "singles bars," where the whole point for . . . probably most of those involved there is to add another person to the list of "conquests," or however they call "anonymous sex with someone they never intend to see again," maybe men so interested in that kind of situation should be paying closer attention to them.
That type of analysis is looking at different things. I am looking at privilege. Whatever article you are referring to is likely taking a more pragmatic analysis, with the assumption being that the person is simply seeking sex, and will get it where ever possible. Under such an analysis, yes, the fat chick is, pardon the pun, low-hanging fruit.