I appreciate all that you do also Ceymore. I don't mind talking to Brev, I've been in a similar situation and can relate to her, plus it helps her having someone to talk to. I find that on gaia people tend to talk about their feeling more and most men are not comfortable about that. Or men join and put on an image that isn't really them, and they get found out and quit.
For some it is Real Life getting in the way also. I also enjoy coming here and chatting with my friends or even just bumping the threads. It gives me an outlet for dealing with a long, difficult day.
I also use it to de-stress from the day.