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• If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure.• I like to listen and be of service, but don't take advantage of this.
• Listen until I finish speaking, even though I might meander a bit.
• Give me time to finish things and make a decision. It's OK to nudge me gently and non-judgmentally.
• Ask me questions to help me get clear.
• Tell me when you like how I look, I'm not averse to flattery.
• Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.
• I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
• Let me know you like what I've done or said.
• Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.
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