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Report | 09/13/2016 4:12 pm

R0b0tic_M0nk3y

for what?

Report | 07/10/2016 4:43 pm

R0b0tic_M0nk3y

Hi, welcome friend

Report | 03/26/2016 8:06 am

Volac Marchosias

Have a great weekend. smile

Report | 02/17/2016 2:07 am

ozkur

Oh good, your still alive. Me too!
I've had a few set backs here and there over the last couple years, everything is fine now.
Still plugging away, like my old cat. LOL
Hope you're doing well.

Report | 02/14/2016 2:07 am

ozkur

What's Up? Are you still out there?

Report | 12/29/2014 11:12 am

The Jolly Douche bag v3

hey

Report | 08/28/2014 5:55 am

A Tasty Tampon

Hey. I'm quitting gaia, and just wanted to say goodbye. I hope everything works out well for you in the future. Best of luck in your relationship, but remember to have the love for yourself to put you first when you need to. heart

Report | 07/29/2014 6:29 am

A Tasty Tampon

Sounds like it's still the same cycle. He gets controlling, then acts nice to keep you from leaving, then resorts to the same thing. He won't really change unless he realizes he has an issue.

Report | 07/14/2014 1:41 pm

A Tasty Tampon

One was my mom, the other two were close friends. I've only been in one serious relationship, but if he started that s**t, he'd be gone. He's not that type of guy though, he's too sweet.

Report | 07/14/2014 1:33 pm

Kaz the tiger

Anything for a human in need of help :3 I always try to help ppl the best way I can.
But I hope you good future with yourself, with or without your current bf. <3

Report | 07/14/2014 1:23 pm

A Tasty Tampon

Sounds like you know what to watch for, and are ready to pull the plug if necessary. I'm glad to have met you too, I've seen a few relationships get abusive, to the point of psychical abuse too, and I'm always happy to be here for anyone going though it. heart If things start getting bad again, or you just need someone to talk to in general, about anything, I'm here.

Report | 07/14/2014 1:15 pm

Kaz the tiger

I think you should keep reminding him about the therapy and drag him to there just to make sure he learned his lession :O He doesn't seem still to think how much he hurted you in a first place, some crappy "sorry" is not just okay if you have almost gone insane or anxious because of him. He needs to learn how to talk to you like a man, that's still my opinion but I'm really happy that something has changed a bit :3 You have been really brave to talk about from your heart to your bf and keep it that way, never underestimate it.

Report | 07/14/2014 12:46 pm

Kaz the tiger

Hi, hows it going? :3 Has anything happened with your problem surprised

Report | 07/14/2014 8:56 am

A Tasty Tampon

It's definitely mental abuse. Here's an article that discussed some of the signs of emotional abuse if you want to see how many you identify with: link. If he ignores the concept of therapy, it means he thinks what he's doing is ok. Don't let him blame you either. abusers always try to blame their victim for their actions. Flat out, if he won't even consider seeing a therapist, he thinks he doesn't need help, and that's dangerous. If he thinks his rage, and manipulation of you through fear is justified, he's not going to chance. I just don't want to see another friend stay with it until it escalates to physical abuse, and then stay until they're assaulted so bad that he's in jail for a possible felony. Its not worth that, and you deserve better. No one deserves to be abused, in any way. Never forget that. heart

Report | 07/10/2014 4:59 pm

A Tasty Tampon

Yeah, I'd wait until he's ready to sit down, and have a serious talk. You shouldn't be so nervous about angering him, its a huge sign of an abusive relationship, physical, or emotional. I'll be wishing you luck, and safety up until you do talk. Just have a cell phone with 911 ready to dial just in case he does flip out. Just to be safe. heart

Report | 07/10/2014 9:00 am

A Tasty Tampon

Hiya! Just wanted to ask if you ended up having that conversation with your boyfriend yet, and see how it went if you did. Hope everything is well! heart

Report | 01/14/2014 3:06 pm

ozkur

Oh Dear, Sorry to hear that. sad
When are you scheduled to have that done? What will they be doing? Send me a pm and we can talk there.

Report | 01/14/2014 1:32 pm

ozkur

Awwwwwwww...thanks! I noticed your comment in status and really. Being sick is no fun. Get Better. Are you doing better? sweatdrop

Report | 01/12/2014 5:22 am

ozkur

Get Well Soon!

Report | 02/15/2013 1:12 am

FrostedFairyDust

Happy Valentine's Day! heart

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