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Report | 06/03/2013 10:12 pm

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Report | 06/03/2013 2:15 am

Nickovetch

Oh, I should be doing some study. I am, but its going at a snail's pace. Oh well, it will get done at some stage xD There's still a week left to study, pleeeeenty of time. Oh, I love drawing, I'm terrible at it, but I do draw occasionally for fun sometimes, usually when I'm extremely bored.

Neutral is a more fitting term I think, normal is so subjective, and horrifying.

Mirroring is an interesting concept, I find that sometimes people don't want a mirror, they want a contrast. I tend to think of a relationship as a living, breathing thing. It has its moods and moments and you can't be too rigid in the way you approach them. Just like people. I live my life in shades of grey, I find the difference between black and white too much and there are circumstances where it just doesn't work. Every relationship is different, but that's my observations based on my experience.

Awww, that Skype group sounds adorbs 4laugh its good to have a bunch of people with whom you feel safe and comfortable with, with whom you can be yourself. Life is meant to be enjoyed with vibrant excitement after all!

Report | 06/02/2013 10:02 pm

Nickovetch

Life is a beautiful thing, its wonderful when its going so well, better than flying I think. However when it hits its lows, it can't possibly get any worse because its like a vacuous pit of despair that just sucks you in, from which there is no escape. Gee, I'm a shining beacon of optimism tonight xD

We're all partially crazy, and normal is such an overrated concept honestly.

I don't think that's a weird thing, I think it just means that you're an independent person. Sure, it's nice to be doted on and whatnot, but it loses its value fast. I guess it comes down to the need for personal space, I know that in all of my relationships, sure, I may love the sod in question and I love spending time with them, but I do need room to breathe. Clingy and I just don't get on well at all, haha. We all need our personal space.

I try to keep people in my life until its time to sever ties, but generally when that happens, I don't really feel pain. I've managed to rationalise it by then and usually there are indicators beforehand of what's about to happen. I read the cues and act accordingly. It's important to know when to keep fighting, keep trying for something you believe in, but then there are also times, where its just as important to learn to let go.

Report | 06/02/2013 8:57 pm

Nickovetch

oh, I generally approach talking to people in a different manner, I try not to think of it as how to avoid misunderstanding because there's one thing that I've learned - you can't please everyone. No matter how hard you try there is going to be some berk who is going to misunderstand, throw up a fuss and cause more drama then needs to actually exist. Like you, I do tend to watch people for cues as to how I should act around them, but my core personality doesn't change. I also try not to think of interpersonal relationships with a "whatever they need" mentality. It's a two way street for a reason.

Heh, at least you have a system xD and I dislike psychos generally, because they make me feel downright creepy at times. I guess its a part of life to have to deal with people like that, but generally I would prefer it if I could avoid them for the most part. And no one is a freak, don't ever say that about yourself :c

It's hard trying to find the right person, someone who is capable of looking after you and tending to all of your needs, emotional and otherwise. But I'm the opposite to you, I'd rather accept people who have blazed their way into my life, who have had a direct impact on me. Not a lot of people manage to clear that high bar. It shows that they're someone worth keeping around, for a long time. Otherwise, if you don't accept them, it gets really, really lonely at times. There's only so much white noise can distract you.

Report | 06/02/2013 8:33 pm

Nickovetch

oh I see, you like to compartmentalise people too! A few of my friends do that, but personally, I'm not a big fan, because I like to think of each person as a unique individual, with unique characteristics and traits which make them special. I wouldn't go as far as to say I love everyone, because there are really some crazy psychos out there, but I do have a general sense of empathy for people. I understand them, I don't try to control them or force them to be something they're not. It's unreasonable, that expectation. I accept people as they are, flaws and not, and hope that one day, they will change for the better. Most of the time, my hopes come true.

Report | 06/02/2013 2:43 pm

EphemeraI Bliss

Just realized Princess Monoke is the one with the forest monster god thingy OTL
Then it's Spirited Away that I don't remember!! scream
I'm so bad at this OTL

Report | 06/02/2013 2:34 pm

EphemeraI Bliss

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kKnKgK-uws4

Omrg * UUUU * //diesss

Report | 06/02/2013 2:29 pm

EphemeraI Bliss

Just watched a trailer for Nausicaa on youtube. It reminds me so much of The Castle In The Sky/Laputa! : D
Animations and the monsters and all c: The bugs look disgusting tho alksjdfalsgasf ;_;
Worse than the nightwalker thingy (forgot name) but it was king of forest or something and had a deer head o_o;
And I love all the movies ;D hurhurhrur.

Report | 06/02/2013 2:12 pm

EphemeraI Bliss

Never watched Nausicaa! And I watched Princess Monoke when I was reallyyy young ;_;
So I don't remember D:
But I think I need to get to watching it again, cause I know it's good, but I don't remember it clearly gonk

Report | 06/02/2013 2:06 pm

EphemeraI Bliss

xD
I especially like howl's movie castle ;u;
I don't think I could get sick watching or listening to it <3

Report | 06/02/2013 1:50 pm

EphemeraI Bliss

He makes a lot of the music of STUDIO GHIBLI films. c:

Report | 06/02/2013 9:32 am

b l u m i

But of course 8D

Report | 06/02/2013 7:49 am

EphemeraI Bliss

Love your profile songs!
Try Yiruma or Joe Hisaishi too emotion_kirakira

Report | 06/02/2013 7:08 am

Alipio558

Hey can you donate me any item please , please I beg you and sorry if I am bothering you sweatdrop

Report | 06/01/2013 10:52 pm

Durri

Sounds absolutely wonderful. blaugh

Report | 06/01/2013 10:07 pm

Durri

Lovely profile. *u*

Report | 06/01/2013 8:57 pm

b l u m i

Hurray!!! :D

Say ... you want to do me a solid and show up at my friend's towns party?
She thinks you make the best avvies and wants to marry your avvies LOL ninja

Report | 06/01/2013 8:27 pm

b l u m i

ninja

Report | 06/01/2013 8:18 pm

Argenti

Yesstyle has a bunch of striped in your size

Report | 06/01/2013 7:55 pm

Argenti

Usually Juniors XS runs at 30.5, another under that is considered girls. Also, if you haven't been fitted for a bra recently, I suggest it. The sizing can change and you may be larger around than you think. I wore the wrong bra size for ages and when I actually got fitted... holy crap. My world changed.

Good places to start looking would be Macy's juniors, abercrombie/A&F/Gilly Hicks, Kohl's, etc. Department stores will be a good start, and A&F only because they specifically cater to those sizes. Consider shopping at some Japanese/Chinese/Korean retailers because they will also have smaller sizes. Try YESSTYLE

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