About
i like writing poetry..
i love music..
music is my life..
picx pix of me and some of my cousins and friends!
me,shane,and a plant
me and shane
me,ate cyhrille and cutesmiles08
us again.but with a guy i do not know.
SOME THOUGHTS
"i may not be the person you thought i was but i am the person who cared for you that much,just so you know i sacrificed everything just for you to make you feel complete."
"even though you made me cry,even though you hurt my pride i still love you,baby just love me too"
"you stole my heart after i told you i love you,i remember saying its OK because you said you love me too, how foolish i was back then.not knowing this will happen"
"Love is for loners who cant be alone.who cant be by themselves.Love is something i wanted before.because of what youve shown me LOVE I WANT NO MORE"
"lam mo kasi miss na kita eh..kung alam mo lng kung ganu kahirap un dba?auko nalang pala magmahal..masasaktan lng din pala ko..NVM"
THINGS TO THINK ABOUT.THINGS THAT WONT LET ME FORGET ABOUT THE PAST
The "parang kayo, pero hindi" stage.
Others call it MU or MUtual
Understanding. Pseudo-relationships.
Pseudo-boyfriends. Pseudo-girlfriends.
Flings. Almost like a relationship,
but not quite. It is a phase where the
persons involved are more than
friends, but not quite lovers. Pwedeng
may verbal agreement, pwedeng wala.
One or both of you may have admitted
your feelings, posible ding hindi. You
just let your gestures do the talking
for you. Walang pormal na ligawan na
nangyari. Hindi kayo mag-dyowa. Pero
sa kilos nyo, sa mga sinasabi nyo,
parang kayo pero hindi.
This kind of "relationship" can happen
at different stages for different
reasons.
It can happen after a break-up. You
still love each other, and you want to
be with each other but you broke up
for a reason, and for the reasons that
you alone know, ayaw niyo na muna
magkabalikan. It can also happen
before a relationship. iyong pareho
kayong nakikiramdam. Posible din na
ayaw niyo muna magseryoso kaya kunwa-
kunwarian muna. Testing lang. Pwede
ring hindi pwedeng maging kayo dahil
isa sa inyo ay may ka-relasyon pa.
Kaya habang hindi pa siya nakikipag-
break doon sa boy/girl, wala muna
kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi
siya nangangaliwa dahil hindi nga
naman "kayo".
This pseudo-relationship stage, for a
time, can be fun, lalo na kung
naghahanap ka ng kalaro. Pero huwag ka
lang mag-eexpect na may patutunguhan
kayo kasi wala talagang kasiguraduhan.
So bakit ang daming nagsesettle sa
gantong set-up ganoong hindi naman
sigurado kung may patutunguhan? Iba't
iba ang dahilan.
Pwedeng for fun lang.
Pwedeng "buti na yan kesa sa wala" or
pwede na yan "pantawid-gutom".
Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real
thing, doon muna sa kunwa-kunwarian.
For those who are not in a serious
relationship, they would think that
pseudo-relationships are better than
having nothing at all. It would be
fun, if what you're after for is just
the "kilig" feeling. But then I
learned that although it was only a
pseudo-relationship, emotions were
real. And usually, in this kind of set-
up, ang unang malulugi ay iyong taong
nainlove sa taken na.
Una, you can't ask him/her to commit.
Since it's not really a relationship,
you can't demand from your partner.
Ano ba kayo? You will always be
uncertain about your role in his/her
life. You can't expect him/her to be
always with you. And if you feel
jealous of the other boy/girl, you
just have to keep it to yourself. Ano
ka ba niya para magselos?
Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply
inlove? You can't be sure if he/she
feels the same way. Baka nag-aassume
ka lang na mahal ka rin niya. Even if
you're dying to tell him/her, you
can't because you're not sure if
he/she will like it. This stage will
always make you wonder where you stand
in this kind of relationship or if
there is a relationship at all.
Pangatlo, what if you become attached
too much? What if you have invested
all your emotions and this man/woman
hasn't? What if you remain faithful to
him/her, not entertaining other
people, only to find out that he/she
is seeing another person?
Isa pang downside ng pseudo-
relationships is that it is fleeting.
When a disagreement sets in, or when
one of you gets cold, then that would
be the end of it. Unlike in a serious
relationship, hindi mo alam kung saan
ka lulugar sa isang pseudo-
relationship.
Wala kang pinanghahawakan.
Kasi sa isang pseudo-relationship,
there is no "us".
Meron lang "you and me", but not "us".
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