LOVE ADVICE FROM Quizilla.Com ITS NOT CHEESY!
ATTITUDE COUNTS!:
Have a good attitude about things. Add some gentle laughter into a conversation. (in the right places and not excessively) This will tell him that you're fun and easy to talk to. It's not attractive to most guys if your head is drooping 3 inches from the ground. (no offense) Meaning that you're always sad and boring. That's normally not very attractive
A LIDDO FLIRT NEVA HURT:
A little flirting never hurt. Just don't try and physically or emotionally hurt him and don't make it look like you're trying to hard. A few ways to do it are to write on his hand (try knee, I did) or challenge him to a competition. EX: Who can make the Gatorade bottle into the garbage can the most amount of times? (I tried this. It's a good one!!!) This one I like; pat or rub his back if he's sad or down. That'll really get him.
GIFT GIVING:
Make sure you get him gifts! Men love gifts! Always give him a gift for every holiday. Get him something that will really make him smile for his birthday and Christmas. This will tell him that you really care and know what he likes!
THE TEASE AND TICKLE:
Tease time! Most guys liked to be tickled every once and a while! Try it out. Tease him! That will let him know that you like to have fun. And teasing is a form of flirting but it's not telling him strait out that you adore him.
A COMFY CONVO:
This one is simple. When he is talking to you make eye contact and smile sweetly. That will make him feel comfortable talking to you and being around you. This will also make him do the same when you're talking.
LET HIM KNOW U LISTEN:
Whenever you see him around always try and talk to him as much as possible. ( Note: This does not mean chat his ear off!!!) Even if it's a friendly wave or even eye contact. That will tell him that you acknowledge him. This will again, make him do the same.
JUST SAY CONGRATS!:
If he's in a band, club, or on a sports team, or something along those lines go and support him. If he sees you there to support him, he'll know you care. Be sure he notices that you're there to support him. If he's on a sports team (ex: football) make signs and yell real loud! That will tell him that you are really supportive and would drop anything for him. When you see him around congratulate him and don't be afraid to give him a hug or a pat on the back! Make sure you have a loving smile on your face. He'll get all his signs from your actions.
I THINK THEE MOST IMPORTANT:
This is the last resort. If he's showing signs that he likes you, go and get him. Don't be shy because if you don't go get him, someone else is sure to. The worst thing he can say is no and it's just a word. If he says it in a way that's hurtful, you've got the wrong guy. If he says yes, congratulations.
THE LOVE NOTES:
If you feel comfertable telling him that you like him, but, you're a little on the shy side, here's what you do. When you write the note just casually explain your feelings for him. It's that simple. DO NOT replace writing a note with texting, emailing, messaging, or anything on a screen. It's very non-romantic. You've written the note. Now what? Deliver it. You can have a friend give it to him but it's just more natural if you give it to him yourself. Just walk up to him casually and say, "This is for you." That's all you have to say. Then, calmly walk away. FAR away. Then you don't have time to hear any of him reactions before you want to. Don't rush off! He's just a person! OK. So you've written and delivered your note. Now for the four most common results.
1. He says no in a hurtful or rude tone: Sorry, he's not the right guy; as a friend or anything more.
2. He doesn't say anything for a long period of time: He's surprised, scared, disgusted, or thinking about it. (That's a good sign. He's deciding if you're the best one for him. That's really responsible of him.)
3. He says no in a kind or gentle tone: He's either just a nice guy or he's good as a friend only.
4. He says yes!!!: You know what to do!!!
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