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I LOVE SASUKE!


Ayami Asuka
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What would you do?
What would you do if a certain person told you that someone that they knew loved a person (( character )) as much as you loved that person
(( character )). So pretty much they are as obbsessed as you.
And you are REALLY obsessed!!
What would you do?
No really... tell me your oppinion on what you would do to stop this or do whatever you want to do to that certain person. (( Let's not get into details. O.o ))

I'm going through something like that right now and I want to ask for all of my friends support. I'm going crazy right now and I can't think straight. -smiles sadly- I'm not sure if what this person told me was true but,
Ayaka-dono would act the same way I did. I was breaking things today and also crying. I didn't even know why I was crying. But the person said hurtful things to me. And I guess, I just let it get to me. She told me about how She's done the same things I did. And for some odd reason everything about us is somewhat alike. So, I'm not sure if I believe it. But the feeling of someone you love, loving someone else really hurts.
I'm aching inside and need warmth and comfort from my friends.

Please be good friends and support a friend in need! -smiles sadly-

I love you all,
Ayami-chan






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Mrs. Kaoru Himura
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comment Commented on: Wed Jul 05, 2006 @ 08:42pm
In times of sorrow there is but one light that leads through the darkness, but for everyone that light is different.
In your case, I'd say suport of your loved ones.
You're off to a good start, but you need people to be there for you, to fall back on in times of crisis such as these.

First, I'd try to talk to the person rationally and really see if they are "obbsessed" as they claim to be.
Remember to keep in mind that you don't actually know the person in real life, therefore they could be lying through their teeth.
Don't give them power over you... the last thing you want is the opponent to win, and when you let them get you angry to the extent where you can't act like yourself anymore, they've already got half the battle done and over with.
Love is love, regardless of anything tossed in the middle.

Claiming to be something and actually being something is an extreme difference.
I could claim I'm a doctor but I'm really not.
If we assumed that what everyone said was true then I'd be the one preforming surgury on people... and the results wouldn't be too pretty. ^^;

I love you deeply little sister,
-Ayaka (( Kaoru ))


comment Commented on: Wed Jul 05, 2006 @ 09:22pm
Arigatou Gozaimasu, Ayaka-dono! ^^,



Ayami Asuka
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Nichola Sekhmet
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comment Commented on: Thu Jul 06, 2006 @ 06:28pm
Ayami-chan,
your friends all love you and i may not have very good advice but (i can only try) i'd say Karou-dono is right and while facing that person don't let them see you breaking down because if you do then that means that they win and you must be that fox that you are and break them before they break you (not literally) in other words test them and get to know exactly what they mean when they say love and if its not the right love then just know that your love is yours and know you have the upper hand and ignore them because they're pittiful.

I LOVE YOU xd
Love,
Wiz-chan


comment Commented on: Thu Jul 06, 2006 @ 11:57pm
Arigatou Gozaimasu, Wiz-san and Aya-dono. I love you so much!
crying heart



Ayami Asuka
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Riku Etsuko - Assasin
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comment Commented on: Fri Jul 07, 2006 @ 09:01pm
I'm not really sure you'll want my opinion... but here it is: Fight for what you love. Another comment I should put in, that follows up to that: If you love something, let it go, if it comes back to you, then it was meant to be. Sorry, I'm going through something rather tramautizing at the moment... and yeah. I know this is a fictional character and all, but yeah...

I do a gree with Kaoru-dono, to a point. So yeah... I'm not a good advice giver, unless it is something between life and death, literally. And lets just say, I still haven't made very good choices in those situations, because I've ended up with the one's I meant to help being the exact opposite of what was ment to happen. So, you get my point...

But keep this in mind, Ayami-chan.
Your friends love you, and will always stick with you. Never behind you, infront of you, above you, or below you. We will stick NEXT to you, till the end. Got that? Good. wink

I'm here for ya, babe. Call me if you need any help, or just need to talk.
Love Always,
Renee


comment Commented on: Fri Jul 07, 2006 @ 10:15pm
well Ayami-chan we just want to be here for you for anything.



Nichola Sekhmet
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Young Vella
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comment Commented on: Sat Jul 08, 2006 @ 01:48am
... I know how you feel... I would probably do the same thing. If you are hurt then I am here to comfort you. I will gladly share your pain for when you are sad, it makes me sad and depressed too. So I am here Big sister. I always will be... Ashiteru Ayami-chan! *hugs with a slight tear in my eye*


comment Commented on: Sat Jul 08, 2006 @ 02:07am
Thank you all so much! crying



Ayami Asuka
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Young Vella
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comment Commented on: Sat Jul 08, 2006 @ 02:11am
*hugs* There's nothing to thank! We stick together!!! *tries to hold back in tears*


comment Commented on: Mon Jul 10, 2006 @ 05:14am
It looks like you have strong friends, and that you don't need much more advice... but if there was anything else to say, it would probably be that your being so similar to whoever it is may be a chance at friendship, rather than a necessary enemy. Is it possible that you could use your similarities and shared likes to forge a friendship instead? Perhaps if you talk to her more and try to be positive, you could end up friends in stead... Not that this is necessarily an applicable opinion, since the cercumstances aren't known clearly, but if there is a possibility of a positive outcome for the both of you, perhaps it should be taken...



Himura Kenshin-chan
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Ayami Asuka
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comment Commented on: Sat Jul 15, 2006 @ 03:58am
-pokes Kenshin-
Um... no...


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