Most women have been used for sex and casually discarded afterward. If a woman is genuinely turned on by a man, she won't have sex with him unless he's willing to be dedicated and commit himself to her. And why should she? She'll just be heart broken and alone after she's hooked ...
Women get tired of using sex to "earn" love that you guys never reciprocate. So, they learn to make you guys "earn" sex by showing love... A man has to be forced and tricked into make a woman happy, whereas, a women find nurturing and pleasing and selflessness more natural. As we mature, we learn that a man needs to "pay upfront" so to speak or he'll rip her off.
Its got nothing to do with manipulation. We just don't want to get hurt. In 29 years of living, I never slept with the man who I was more attracted to than anyone in my life. Why? He was girl women escort unable to commit because of his children. I really liked him and he turned me on. Did I want to find out what it was like to not have access to that when I needed it? No. He couldn't be there or assure me that he would be available tomorrow... though, he claimed he was "head over heals in love" his answer for how long it would last was "I don't know."
I didn't need the pain. Letting him go hurt really bad. But at least I didn't have a physical addiction to him along with it.
