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Part 7

>>War Kitten<<: However I did say maybe
<HF>S is for Shonem: sometimes I don't know what you mean
<HF>S is for Shonem: if you really think you are above so many people, you would only tell me that I was in that 10% because it would upset me to hear otherwise
<HF>S is for Shonem: or maybe you are saying it's just a theory for that same fact
>>War Kitten<<: youre mistaken
<HF>S is for Shonem: I have no way of knowing
<HF>S is for Shonem: because it's how you seem to make it rational
>>War Kitten<<: do you have this idea that people in that 10% look for and only accept people in that 10%?
<HF>S is for Shonem: it's not the point
>>War Kitten<<: thats the question
<HF>S is for Shonem: no, because I don't think thats true at all
<HF>S is for Shonem: I don't think there is this magic 10%
<HF>S is for Shonem: the only humans who are unable to give love, like everyone else, are either damaged, or just have no idea how to
<HF>S is for Shonem: it's a lot larger number than 10%
<HF>S is for Shonem: if anything
>>War Kitten<<: how about this
>>War Kitten<<: a new theory
>>War Kitten<<: that love has many levels
>>War Kitten<<: and only 10% get to a certain point
>>War Kitten<<: thats not bad
>>War Kitten<<: its not good
>>War Kitten<<: its indifference
>>War Kitten<<: who cares?
>>War Kitten<<: who is harmed?
>>War Kitten<<: who will die because only "10%" gets there?
>>War Kitten<<: why should it matter as long as someone loves?
>>War Kitten<<: is not better to love than to not love at all?
>>War Kitten<<: so, who cares what level it is, its love
>>War Kitten<<: I dont care if my boyfriends love is at the lowest level
>>War Kitten<<: because its still love
>>War Kitten<<: but you would have to ask yourself, what is love?
>>War Kitten<<: and then ask, what are these levels?
>>War Kitten<<: along with whats makes love complicated and tainted
>>War Kitten<<: so on
>>War Kitten<<: but thats waaay beyond here

<HF>S is for Shonem: But here is my problem with your whole "new theory"
<HF>S is for Shonem: putting a level on it
<HF>S is for Shonem: implies one is greater than the other
<HF>S is for Shonem: you are stating it like a fact, there are people above others
<HF>S is for Shonem: I'm asking you
<HF>S is for Shonem: how would Richie feel if it were like... a few years down the line, and some how some way
<HF>S is for Shonem: he knew that you thought that the love he gave you was some how less, or just in some way lower than yours?
<HF>S is for Shonem: does it in no way to you come off as either arrogance to think like that, or to at all say some people are lower
>>War Kitten<<: levels are not a measurement of passion or strength
<HF>S is for Shonem: then they mean nothing
<HF>S is for Shonem: so why bother putting levels?
>>War Kitten<<: because levels is not measuring strength or passion
>>War Kitten<<: its a form of love
>>War Kitten<<: and the strength of the 7 sins on love
<HF>S is for Shonem: like one would love a certain food?
<HF>S is for Shonem: and then finally the one they would die for
>>War Kitten<<: its deeper than that
>>War Kitten<<: but for our sake, yes
>>War Kitten<<: but lets take this as a theory
<HF>S is for Shonem: one is less than the other
<HF>S is for Shonem: and not as strong
<HF>S is for Shonem: you would not die for your favorite food
<HF>S is for Shonem: and if his is the lowest
>>War Kitten<<: well you could love a food stronger than a wife if thats how you want to see it
<HF>S is for Shonem: then it's not as strong
>>War Kitten<<: no the level isnt as high
>>War Kitten<<: the level is low but the passion high
>>War Kitten<<: just as
>>War Kitten<<: the level can be high but the passion is low
<HF>S is for Shonem: passion is only part of certain kinds of love
<HF>S is for Shonem: I don't have any passion for my friends
<HF>S is for Shonem: but I love them
>>War Kitten<<: ok instead of passion, strength
>>War Kitten<<: lets take the level theory
>>War Kitten<<: and the love for a food is the lowest level
>>War Kitten<<: and the love for your spouse, true and honestly, is highest
>>War Kitten<<: you can love this food far stronger than your spouse in theory
>>War Kitten<<: even though that love is at a lower level
>>War Kitten<<: its the idea that love has levels but varies in strength
<HF>S is for Shonem: are there people who cannot pass a certain level? or strength?
>>War Kitten<<: I would say that everyone can get to the highest level
>>War Kitten<<: but few want to
>>War Kitten<<: they are too happy in the other levels to advance
>>War Kitten<<: be it a lack of morals or a lack of motivation