So my ex is getting married in September, which I just found out today. On talk like a pirate day--go figure.
I'm not surprised, just surprised that I didn't know until a mutual friend was checking her calendar for cruise dates.
Her: I have a couple free weekends in September--just can't do this weekend here -point- since it's M and B's wedding.
Pat: ...What?
Her: oh... -Cue deer in the headlights look- You didn't know?
Pat: Well, I do now.
Yeesh.
I mean, ok, we haven't talked much in the past few months, but I'm sure they've had this planned since before that. Not to mention we'd been friends for seven years besides. I think a couple months of disappearing off the face of the earth is to be expected now and again. It's just what I do.
So I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt--going to assume she didn't tell me because she knows I hate weddings and doesn't want to hear me actually say "I'm glad that you're happy, but no ******** way am I coming."
Or maybe there's just some code saying you don't invite anyone to weddings that either partner has slept with in the past--which is probably smart. Of course I'm not going to run off with the bride, even if it would be completely fair payback.
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