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Sometimes I wonder ... Sometimes I wonder just how helpful I am. People always ask me for my advice or what I would do in a similar situation, and I give them my honest answer. But then I stop and think if what I tell them actually helps. I wonder if they actually listen to me or if they simply disregard anything I have to say. There are times where I want to tell them what to do, but my personal feelings prevent me from telling them. I dont want them to be mad at me. I dont want them to ignore me for how I really feel. All I want is to actually be able to help someone, is that so much to ask for? All I want is for my advice to actually prove to be useful. I want to feel useful. I want to feel like I am really needed. I want to help. Unfortunately, I doubt that my help is ever really wanted or needed.

Posted by: One-Worded-Jokester Tue Oct 07, 2008 @ 10:29pm

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Alteris
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Commented on: Sun Nov 16, 2008 @ 07:42am


	Sounds alot like me, Sakura. I've been out of so many peoples lives that I'd usually effect in a positive way. Now I've been cut away from it all by one simple fact; Doubt. I doubted myself and thats what you're doing. I'll tell you right now, this might be late and I'm sorry for being so late, but don't doubt yourself. Thats where everything begins to change into something you wouldn't want to experience. I know that feeling, I can't explain it. And I won't even try, just don't do it. I understand what you're saying, and why wouldn't I. I believe we are alike, and thats a good thing. That way we can guide eachother if we ever need it.

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