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 Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 1:29 pm
So today I was talking to my friend/ex-roomate/co-worker about once when my boyfriend visited and she nearly hit the child she was babysitting in the head with a fork, to which he exclaimed "You nearly forked that child!" Ahh, it was a funny excursion on the whole, but I digress.
So my friend laughed and said "I love Rob, I'm going to steal him from you. I seriously love that kid." and this isn't the first time she's said it, but it's especially odd for her since she's got a fiancee and she never shows interest in other guys, but has said she would steal Rob from me before sweatdrop
I'm not worried about her stealing him, but it reminded me of how yesterday another of my friends was saying how Rob is cute... of course, she was asking me strange questions, but she insisted she was going to seduce him and steal him away from me... then offered me her boyfriend in return. I suppose she forgets I had dated her boyfriend, and ended up with Rob right after him.
And these aren't the only women to fall victem to my lover's charms (haha, I said lover :3), it seems all these girls I know have no problem telling me they like him, or they would want to date him were they single, etc. Although most of them agree we're perfect together, and I suspect some of them think that if they threaten to steal him from me it'll make me nicer to him... but haha, they don't realize my boyfriend only wants to be with me, and so I don't have to worry. And I still think they mean it when they say they'd like to date him.
Although, I made him look more presentable in public, he used to look like a hippy or a pot head (I realize those can sometimes be one and the same).
So have your friends ever told you they were going to steal your boyfriend/girlfriend? Made weird remarks about your significant other?
Does this make you feel good/bad?
Have you ever wanted to steal a friend's girlfriend/boyfriend?
Does this make my boyfriend awesome? Should I treat him nicer?
I suspect they only want him 'cause they see what a cute couple we are together. Discuss.
Is your boyfriend/girlfriend awesome?
And any other random response you can pull out of this.
Would you like to date this man (that's a joke, and if you would... he's mine! *hiss hiss*)
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 1:58 pm
I always have guys tell me "Oh, she was looking at you, why don't you go after her", etc. I usually tell them my girlfriend has DDs and plays video games with me. That shuts them right up almost every time.
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 2:19 pm
Sirbadmonkey I always have guys tell me "Oh, she was looking at you, why don't you go after her", etc. I usually tell them my girlfriend has DDs and plays video games with me. That shuts them right up almost every time.
I'm not your girlfriend, stop spreading rumors about us! emo
rofl
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No one has ever said anything like that to me, but we have been called a cute couple before by quite a few people.
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 3:00 pm
i had that problem with the last ex. well kinda i guess.
mini ramble.
the thing there was the guy was stringing her along before we went out. then she met me, and her redoubled his efforts to keep her wrapped around his finger but just so he can have someone worship him. which i would always stop his attempts because i knew how much she fell under his charisma.
bugged the s**t out of me and i ended up becoming the "villian" because i and her friends kept saying not to hang around him. longer story there haha.
then we broke up because he made a move on her and she thought "THIS IS MY CHANCE!"
a week later i get a IM talking about how he used her and now they no longer talk. almost felt bad until i realized that she treated me like crap in our relationship.
ah well. better to have washed my hands clean.
being single annoys me now haha. mainly because its kinda boring watching TV or walking around by yourself. XP
i think you got something good with your boyfriend if this is whats happening. most of the time its just scare talk to make sure you keep him around....unless your friends are like that guy i just mentioned....then get rid of them asap. or cockblock the crap out of them.
"mark your territory" better?
/end mini ramble... sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 6:28 pm
My friends tell me my boyfriend is cute or hot or really nice looking. THough I haven't heard anyone say they would go out with him. [Though this one chick did some up and offer her number when we were sitting in the mall, but thats a differnt story.] What does kind of bother me though is all his ex's are his good friends. o.<
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 9:10 pm
ForeverandAlways What does kind of bother me though is all his ex's are his good friends. o.< That would actually bother me too. But I'm very bad, I get jealous easily. To answer the questions. I've never wanted to steal a friend's boyfriend. I'm sure your boyfriend is awesome, Ghosty. If he's your boyfriend, then you know he's awesome. Shouldn't be with him if he's not. Don't treat him differently though. He should like you just the way you are and the way you treat him, otherwise he wouldn't be with you now, right? Or he would be complaining about it. I'm single, my last ex wasn't awesome. He turned out to be a real... I'll say 'not nice person.' Wasted my time.
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 10:09 pm
I kinda sorta stole my ex-friend's boyfriend. Completely unintentional though. She introduced us, and I had a crush on him the whole time they were dating (I didn't find out until I was too infatuated that they were dating, they kept it on the downlow...) and evidentally he had a crush on me the whole time they were dating (She tended to ignore him or treat him mean or indifferent often).... She ended up dumping him and we still hung out, the next thing I knew two months had passed and he asked me out while we were looking at halloween costumes.... That was two years ago... And he is really adorable and somewhat flirty (Which is unintentional on his part, he just has a flirty, charming personality...Always has...) and many girls want to steal him from me. This one girl had the audacity to walk up to him and ask him if he'd like to come over to her apartments because her dad wasn' home in an attempted husky voice all while I was standing there with him holding his hand. I often mark my territory with hugs and kisses in the hallways in front of all our classes. My little way of saying "He's mine, back off bitches." I get kind of jealous. <.< People(LOL, random girls really) say we make a cute couple...    God, I hate these pictures, I look like crap in them. I changed so much in one year.
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 8:20 am
I'm so lucky, my boyfriend has no ex girlfriends... so I don't have to be jealous of any other girls.
Last night he and I were talking, and joking at how messed up my group of friends is since they're they only women that seem to show interest in him.
Of course, he probably completely misses any flirting directed at him. That and now he sees fewer and fewer women since he's not that outgoing and he works at a Valvoline... so not too many womens there for him. And in college the women tend to be less obvious than in Highschool, at least in my humble opinion.
My boyfriend and I will have known each other for 3 years now, and have officially been dating for 3 years sometime in March.... although we never had an anniversary, 'cause he never asked me out... we acted like a couple well before March, probably since november or december. It was just because our friends kept insisting we we a couple and that we were so cute together and they started calling us boyfriend and girlfriend. He and I were like "Well, ok." so we started referring to one another as such.
I actually prefer it that way, and we don't have to worry about anniversaries. Although, sometimes it sucks when people are like "We're having our six month! I don't know what I should get for them!" and I'm like "Wait, dude! People waste their time celebrating months?!" And then I feel bad that I don't celebrate years... but I actually think it's more romantic that we just were a couple, rather than him asking me out. With all that destiny and whatnot.
...Come to think of it, depsite having multiple boyfriends I have never had one flat ask me out, one just started making out with me sweatdrop
Out of my group of friends, I'm the one that even though my boyfriend lives far away I've been sure to parade around for them to get to know him when he's here, even if it means we lose a lot of our alone time... so my friends know my boyfriend better than I know theirs.
And Jesus, your boyfriend looks like a more tanned version of a friend of my boyfriend's O_o And yes, y'all do make a cute couple.
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 9:21 am
The best way to mark your territory is by widdling on his head, or releasing a dense spray of pheremones from your musk gland.
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 12:07 pm
Ghosty - I wish my boyfriend had no ex's to deal with... My boyfriend was like a man-ho before I met him...
<.<
Also... Guess his ethnicity! No one ever gets that right.
I hate talking about how I met my boyfriend, I feel like people get the impression I intentionally broke them up or something. I think it's funny that the girl still treats me like I sabbed her in the back and stole her man when she was the one who dumped him, and he even told her that as long as he was single ad she asked him out again he'd go back with her.... It was two months and she did nothing to get him back... So I'm still trying to figure out how i stole him....
Anyways...
On the subject of anniversaries we're really confusing... We've each broken up with each other twice, The first time because I was just uncomfotable with shows of physical affection at the time... The second time because I was grounded and he couldn't get that through his head that I couldn't really go anywhere to show him any physical affection....
The first time he asked me out which was two years ago, was in October around the 20th... We went trick-or-treating as vampires together, lol.
The second time was the same year, around late April... We were together for a month.
This last time was in August on the 21st.
We've been together solid since.
We're both more mature and have a way better more communicative relationship.
We don't really celebrate anniversaries, but we're having a sort of anniversary party on the first Saturday that school starts back--- It's also a joint birthday party and celebration of him coming back after spending the summer away...
We throw random crazy parties like that ogten though...
>.>
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 2:04 pm
Augh, I'm horrible at games like that emo
Since my guy's friend is half jewish... I'm going to go with jewish >>;; Especially 'cause that wouldn't normally be my first choice.
And when you said you kinda stole him and told the story I was like "Uhh, how exactly did she steal him?" so she's totally retarded if she thinks you stole him. She's probably like me, she likes to think that she owns the guy. I've had guys that like me, and if they only liked me for awhile then tell me about a girl they might date, even if I didn't ever date them I get all protective... but then I tell myself that's stupid and force myself to stop being a b***h. I told one of my friends once "You're mine" and he was like "Uh, we aren't dating" and I was like "...B-but! You're mine!" My ex-boyfriend and I were long-distance (yet again, I seem to love those kind of relationships emo ) and we met through a friend of mine who had moved to Colorado. We ended up dating in a similar way to me and my current boyfriend, but we stopped talking 'cause he was always busy and I got lonlier and lonlier. I thought I had broken up with him months before I started dating my current boyfriend... but I had had to send him a message 'cause I couldn't get him, and didn't really hear from him other than that... and he didn't get it (so he thinks I cheated on him, I think, and I feel really bad about that... but we're still friends). Anyways, now he and my friend who I met him through are dating. And it's so weird 'cause she would be like "Eww, Matt" when I'd say how I liked him and stuff, and she really seemed to have no attraction to him... then one day she IMs me and is like "Hey, Matt and I are dating!" I was all "What the hell?" in my head, but I congratulated them sweatdrop And that sounds similar to your situation... except for I did the breaking up. I broke up with Matt, so even though I was jealous and protective I was all "Augh, I should be happy for them both! They're happy! But he's mine! And I can't jokingly flirt with him 'cause he's with my friend! Augh, this is so complicated!" So they don't realize all the inner turmoil I have, but it's cool 'cause they're happy and I'm happy for them. But yeah, if I had gotten mad at her for stealing him I would've been a ******** only ex girlfriend I have to deal with is myself, 'cause I used to break up with my boyfriend nightly and then weekly... now I only break up with him after I tell him he has months to do something and then he doesn't get it done... however, that didn't work out so great (it was if he didn't visit me I'd break up with him) and I needed a vacation anyways... so I visited him instead and we got back together after a week. When we first started dating I was really freaked out at having a serious relationship, 'cause I'd figured all my life I'd be single....
Like, my neighbor once told me something like "You won't feel like that once you're married" to which I responded "Who would WANT to marry ME?" And I was like, 9 >>; God, I had terrible self-esteem. But only when it came to anybody liking me.
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 3:19 pm
Lot's of people think he's a hebrew, he also gets indian(both kinds: like from india and native american), and he's gotten like middle eastern before a lot too....
But he's second generation Mexican!
Anyways, I've always been like that too in terms of self esteem and relationships...
I can never understand why anyone would want to date me, I have that thing where you're your own harshest critic...
I always feel awkward when I find out someone likes me or asks me out.
I tend to not have a 'date-dar', I can't figure out when someone's flirting with me, or interested in me, or trying to ask me out... Because I've built up this thng where I can't understand why anyone would actually have any kind of interest in me.
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 3:36 pm
Ms. Paradizzle Sirbadmonkey I always have guys tell me "Oh, she was looking at you, why don't you go after her", etc. I usually tell them my girlfriend has DDs and plays video games with me. That shuts them right up almost every time.
I'm not your girlfriend, stop spreading rumors about us! emo
Well, I was having a good day . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . XD But seriously, I loves my girlfriend!
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 7:28 pm
God damnit! I had really suspected him of being some form of hispanic, and then I was like "No... it has to be something I WOULDN'T have guessed."
Damn!
Damn! Damn! Damn! I almost won!
And yeah, I can't pick up on being hit on. The only reason I realized an ex liked me is 'cause I layed my head on his shoulder and he decided to take the moment to kiss me sweatdrop
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