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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 8:22 am
Cancer runs down on my moms side of the family... every single women or our side has had cancer and they either had surgury or died from it being to late.... I know my mom had sugury and hers was tacken away. But the doctors are worried that I have it cause I've been having alot of health probolems and I'm constanly getting blood work done or tests on my heart and it seems like almost every second week. I take after moms side of the family and I'm kinda worried. My grandpa has a whole bunch of different types of cancer *of course his way of life may not help either...* from what I hear he's supposed to be blind and he'll be passing soon.
Have any of you delt with cancer? How did it effect you? have you ever known anyone with it? if not wanna disscuss it?
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 10:42 am
Well, my grandfather died of cancer to the lymph notes, so it really affected me. Well kind of, I mean, I barely got to see him, but when I did, I had an awesome time with him... I just wish I could have spent more time with him, for real.
As for cancer, I don't think I have such a high chance for it, well, skin cancer, possibly. But I have more of a risk for diabetes than anything. =/
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 10:32 pm
My exboyfriend had cancer...
We were only 15, and two weeks after we started dating he was diagnosed with Hodgkins Lymphoma. I was actually the one who noticed the lump on his neck and told him to get it checked. Had I not insisted he see a doctor, he would have suffocated in his sleep.
He underwent chemotherapy and radiation treatments, and I never left his side. We almost lost him a couple times... Fortunately, he made a full recovery and was declared cancer-free after only a year. He was one of the lucky ones.
I've never felt open to talk about what happened in that year. I just... kind of keep it bottled up inside. Every once in a while I'll flip through my scrapbook and re-read all the newspaper clippings, or look through the photo albums... Nearly four years later, and it's still hard for me to think about.
No one in my entire life has made more of an impact than he did. I am who I am today because of him.
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 7:06 am
D: I hope everything is okay with you!
Both sides of my family are relatively healthy; there's some cancer history on my father's side, but the people who have it either keep beating it, or were very old when they died anyway. On my mother's side, we're mostly very healthy; heart problems are the only thing, I think, but then again most of that side smoked. XD But that line of the family has a very long history of living to be very old; well into the 90s or 100s, even as far back as in the 1800s when everyone usually died much younger.
But we were really worried for a little while that my step-dad had cancer. Yesterday we found out that he didn't, thank the Force, though it sort of sucked waiting a month to find out.
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 8:31 pm
My mom died of breast cancer about three years ago when I was 11. She was diagnosed when I was only 5 or six, so I really don't remember much of what it was like during the earlier years. All that I know is that she was on chemotherapy and was mainly having issues with bone metastases and a low white blood cell count.
Most of the bigger problems occurred during the last year of her life, when the cancer started metastasizing in her brain and liver. She was put in the hospital several times due to fluid in her lungs and surrounding her heart, and had to use an oxygen tank around the house. After she nearly died because of a pulmonary embolism, her doctor decided to take her off of the chemotherapy. She only lived two weeks after that.
I guess for a while after she died I was in denial, then I started to get very angry and rebellious. I guess you could say that I was mad at the world. However, this past year I've calmed down a great deal and have learned that, while I still miss my mom, I need to focus on making myself into a person she would be pleased with.
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 10:43 am
My brother got cancer. He's 6 now and yea.. ;[ Still has it. He's kinda a tad mental and all. He goes to a school 30 minutes away from here that specials in metal disorders and all. He curses people out, hits people, breaks things, and he's a really bad child. All because of a brain tumor. Yea he was born with it. and I remember he had to get surgey done. They opened up his head getting part of the tumor out. He has a really big scar now. And it's not growing.. it's shrinking till this day. It might come back.. but yea. It's life.. it's a very sad thing even though i dislike my brother most of the time. But sometimes i got to remember he has cancer.. in his brain.
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Posted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 3:38 pm
How many of our daydreams will darken into nightmares...
x_x; *hug*
From what I can remember... my aunt Carol had breast cancer, but it was taken away and it was never heard from again.
Cancer doesn't really run in our family, thank God.
... where there is a danger of them coming true?
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Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 12:28 am
I hope you'll be okay!
My aunt found out she had breast cancer and almost every day she would go in to get treatments. She doesn't have it anymore and it makes me really happy to know she's doing great. But it still scared me a lot.
Same as Grin Evilly, breast cancer doesn't run in our family. *wipes forehead*
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Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 8:01 am
my mum had Hodgkins, but that was way before I was born...
though it wasn't Cancer, she died last year of heart failure, or something...i can't actually remember sweatdrop so, that's my biggest worry from now on.
An old good friend of mine's mum had breast cancer, though she got through it amazingly well...she's such a strong woman...though I never see ehr since i grew apart from her daughter...
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 2:09 pm
My mom had non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma, she is cancer free for I think 11 years now. My mom's grandpa died of lung cancer. Her aunt had breast cancer. And a set of great grandparents died of cancer on that side of the family. On my dad's side so far my great grandma died of lung cancer.
A close family friend of ours passed a while ago now because of severe cancer. My friends mom had cancer and they are worried it's come back.
My family is rather involved with the American Cancer Society Relay for Life due to all the connections.
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Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 4:47 am
My Auntie has cancer. It started off as breast but her doctor told her it wasn't cancer but he got it wrong so now its spread to her bones and organs. She's having chemo but is on limited time. I don't think anyone is unaffected by cancer. sad
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Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 4:43 pm
Hi. Im Lara. Im new.
My mom died of cancer March 14 2005. It kinda screws up your life. But if has brought me closer to God I guess. I feel bad for anybody who has it. From how It affected my mom, if must suck.
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Posted: Sun Sep 16, 2007 11:37 am
Awhiee. I wanna give you all a big hug But I don't wanna look stupid and hug the computer xP
My mom's best friend got breast cancer. It was devastating when she died. At the time she died, her daughter was 5 months preg and she was living for the birth of her first grandson. That was the worst ):
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Posted: Sat Sep 29, 2007 4:50 pm
One of my favorite teacher's mom just died of cancer. It was such a shock cause my teacher is a very funny & happy person. I felt bad for him.
My grampa has parkinson's disease but that's about it. I don't really have any connection to cancer other than that. I'm really thankful for that.
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Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 5:57 pm
My grandfather died of lung cancer. I was too young to even remember him. My grandma died about a year ago from cancer as well. ;-; She was my greatest role model and even thinking about it today makes me want to cry. I visited her grave recently and it made me sick to realized that I won't see her for a long long time...that she's actually gone. Now my other grandmother is slowly dying from breast cancer. It makes me so sad that there is nothing I can do and that so many people are suffering from it. It's almost like the new black plague and I can't stand it. Also my aunt has some kind of cancer now too. I'm worried I'll get it too but I don't even care about that right now honestly. I shouldn't worry about that while people around me are dying should I? I'm mad that there's no cure but I'll still keep praying that they'll find one soon. I don't want to lose anymore of my family becuase it hurts so much I don't know if I can stand it if it happens again.
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