Welcome to Gaia! ::

Reply Pro-Choice Gaians
Women Who Regret Abortion

Quick Reply

Enter both words below, separated by a space:

Can't read the text? Click here

Submit

Fran Salaska

PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 3:46 am


I decided to do some research into this topic to discover the woman pro-lifers often talk about. Those who regret their abortions.

Most of the stories I read involve coercion, lack of knowledge, being religiously against it, those who had particularly horrible experiences with it and rushing into the decision. There are scant few women who knowingly made the choice and then regret it.

Here are some links to the stories I found:
http://www.gargaro.com/regrets.html
http://afterabortion.com/sharing.html#1

A lot of them are still pro-choice, as well. One of my main points about women who regret abortion, though, is this: who doesn't regret some things in their life? Aren't there other choices people have made that they regret? My boyfriend's mother smoked for a year when she was younger and regrets and hates it now, but she won't make anyone else stop doing it. What makes abortion so special?
PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 6:09 am


What makes abortion so special?

Because you're supposed to regret killing babies. And because it supports the pro-life stance that babies are the most amazingly wonderful thing in the world and every woman should have one.

I'm sure that if i had an abortion I would feel... maybe not regret but some sort of negative feeling about it afterwards. Mainly because I want to have kids and what If that was my only chance?

caffinated_tulip


Blythe the Mass Debater

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 1:13 pm


WebMD

Quote:
Study Says Most Women Don't Regret Abortion

WebMD Medical NewsAug. 22, 2000 -- The impact of an abortion on a woman's mental health has been questioned for years. Some studies have suggested that many women suffer depression, regret and even a form of post-traumatic stress disorder called 'post-abortion syndrome.'


But a study out this month finds that 80% of women were not depressed after having an abortion. In fact, the rate of depression in the postabortion group was equal to the rate of depression in the general population. As for post-traumatic stress symptoms, the rate was 1% in the postabortion group compared with an estimated 11% in women of the same age in the general population.


The study's authors say the results agree with previous studies -- including one by former Surgeon General C. Everett Koop, MD -- showing that severe mental distress following an abortion is rare.


"Most women were satisfied with their decision, believed they had benefited more than had been harmed by their abortion, and would have the abortion again," writes study author Brenda Major, PhD. "These findings refute claims that women typically regret an abortion." Major is a professor of psychology at the University of California in Santa Barbara.


For the study, published in the August issue of Archives of General Psychiatry, Major and colleagues interviewed 882 women undergoing abortion. The interviews were conducted prior to abortion, immediately after the procedure, and, for 442 women, again two years later.


Nearly 70% of women reported being satisfied with the decision, and 72% reported more benefit than harm. Of those who reported depression or regret after the abortion, most were depressed or had emotional problems prior to becoming pregnant.


Experts express little surprise at the findings and say this study is more proof that for the majority of women, abortion has few aftereffects.


In an editorial accompanying the study, Nancy Adler, PhD, says that rather than contributing to mental stress, the studies suggest a significant decrease in mental distress and an increase in positive emotions and self-esteem.


Adler, director of health psychology at the University of California in San Francisco, also points out that it is important to look closer at studies that have found psychological harm after abortion to evaluate whether distress really was the result of the abortion, or of other events.


"Experiencing an unwanted pregnancy is itself distressing, as may be the events associated with it. For example, a woman's partner may respond to the pregnancy by leaving her. The abortion then occurs in the context of loss and abandonment, yet depression or distress following the abortion would be attributed to the procedure," Adler writes. Facing hostile protesters and intimidation in seeking an abortion also may be factors that heighten risk for psychological problems postabortion in some women, she says.


"Most women fare very well emotionally," agrees David Grimes, MD. "It's important to understand that abortion is not a problem, it's a solution. The problem is the unintended pregnancy. When that is behind them they oftentimes will feel much better. But it is well documented that relief is the overwhelming response of most women."


Psychological counseling is routine at most facilities that perform abortions.


"It's mainly a discussion about the risk, benefits and alternatives and then a discussion of contraceptive options after the procedure," Grimes tells WebMD. Grimes is vice president of biomedical affairs at Family Health International, a nonprofit group in Research Triangle Park, N.C., that helps women and men obtain access to family planning services and methods.


Both Adler and Grimes say the findings highlight the need to identify and provide extra support and counseling to women who may be experiencing depression or other problems prior to an abortion and may be at risk for problems afterwards.
PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 2:02 pm


I'm not talking about most women. I'm talking about the ones that give reason for the pro-lifers to think PASS exists.

Fran Salaska


Dissnitive Blade

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 4:00 pm


Seeing the Kraken
I'm not talking about most women. I'm talking about the ones that give reason for the pro-lifers to think PASS exists.

"The abortion was uncomfortable a bit"

"SEE SEE PASS EXISTS!! THIS WOMAN PROVES IT!!"

"What?"

The only time I hear of PASS are from lifers that apply that made up stuff to each and ever abortion.
PostPosted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 11:31 pm


Most were mentally unsuitable for a child. If they didn't have an abortion, they would have made the kid's life miserable for sure.

Dawn of Decadence


Lady Adriata

Friendly Entrepreneur

7,800 Points
  • Tycoon 200
  • Profitable 100
  • The Perfect Setup 150
PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 4:01 pm


As someone who had a bad experience with abortion I am shocked by the allegations that abortions gone wrong = regret abortion.

All it did was strengthen my resolve about abortion and increase my anger 100-fold about the way Pro-Lifers LIE and HURT and MAIM innocent women like me for their own ******** up, un-founded morals.

All abortions will be traumatic-- but not neccesarily because you're getting rid of the fetus but because your hormones are out of whack and BEING pregnant may have ******** you up emotionally for a while. I think a LOT of women are RELIEVED when it's over. I know I was-- I'd lie if I said sometimes I wonder what it'd be like if I was still pregnant but regret? No. I can get pregnant again and I WILL get pregnant again and I'll experience it on my terms.
Reply
Pro-Choice Gaians

 
Manage Your Items
Other Stuff
Get GCash
Offers
Get Items
More Items
Where Everyone Hangs Out
Other Community Areas
Virtual Spaces
Fun Stuff
Gaia's Games
Mini-Games
Play with GCash
Play with Platinum