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 Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 12:35 am
Do you think it is wrong to make out with your girlfriend or boyfriend? I never thought it was but I have heard plenty of people say it is. What do you think?
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Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 9:28 pm
Well, I guess it depends on how intimate your relationship is. My parents always told me I wasn't ever going to do it until I was married, and maybe that's how I'll go with it.
But if you've just been dating for a few months (depending on how well you know each other), it's probably not the best idea. Those are just my thoughts, though. I dunno. I just wouldn't want to go into something like that too quickly, ya know?
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 6:58 pm
This is what I believe, and I'm sure I'm right: You should not kiss until you've finished your mission and you're looking to get married. And you should NEVER 'make out' or 'french kiss' 'till AFTER you're married. I'll argue about this with anyone -I'm sure about this.
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 12:36 pm
Quote: True_Leingod This is what I believe, and I'm sure I'm right: You should not kiss until you've finished your mission and you're looking to get married. And you should NEVER 'make out' or 'french kiss' 'till AFTER you're married. I'll argue about this with anyone -I'm sure about this. I don't necessarily want to argue, but what are your reasons why you should NEVER do this before marriage?
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 2:57 pm
I agree with True_L. You should never make out or french kiss until you are married. Why? Because it can lead down to a very dangerous path that deals with immoral sins. There is no reason to make out or french kiss. This does not show that you are in love. It has to deal simply with lust.
If you truly loved each other, you would respect each other. You would make each other feel like the daughter and son of god that they are.
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 12:46 pm
I don't think it is so bad, unless you are doing it with everyone you meet. But it is not considered a sin and I think it is ok, just you need to be careful to not let it get out of hand.
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 12:24 pm
But that's the problem, how will you keep it from getting out of hand? -Wouldn't it make more sense to stay away from it entirely, then you avoid all risk, just don't make room for mistakes.
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 1:41 pm
I believe you probably shouldn't make out until you are maried but before that there is nothing wrong with kissing
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 2:02 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 5:00 pm
People who think they can control their emotions by only making out or by only french kissing are the ones in big trouble. It leads to a steep and slippery path. One thing usually leads to another. There is no reason at all to French kiss and make out. While there isn't anything that says "Thou Shalt not make out." doesn't mean that it is a good thing. There are proper times to do some things.
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 5:38 pm
Those are all good points. But isn't it true that anything can go too far. Is it alright to just kiss? That can go too far. I have a friend named Marlin who says his first kiss is going to be over the alter in the temple. So he believes any kind of kissing before your married is improper. I don't think it is wrong to wait. But I also don't think it's wrong to kiss. Like our leaders say...avoid being alone in the dark; avoid being alone late at night; and make your decision before the time comes of how you will act. I believe all 3 of those points are correct.
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 6:31 pm
Kissing is fine, but I believe you should kiss after you two have been dating for months.
But we are talking about french kissing. There is a big difference between the two. If you do french kiss and make out. I don't think you would be doing that in front of your parents or friends. You most likely will be alone.
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Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 11:32 pm
If you feel making out is wrong, then why would you kiss at all? Couldn't regular kissing lead to making out? If it is true that "People who think they can control their emotions by only making out or by only french kissing are the ones in big trouble" then how do you know you can control your emotions by JUST kissing. According to my friend Marlin, those who kiss at all are the ones in big trouble. So, to be truly safe, why not avoid any type of kissing? question
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Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 7:30 pm
Then it could be said that... If fires can burn down houses and forests, Why would we use fire at all? You have small pilot lights to huge camp fires. Yet we use fire a lot.
In other words, just because one thing can be related to another thing does not make it bad. Yes I feel making out is wrong. Making out is excessive kissing AND touching. It is a step away from an immoral sin. Making out is very different from a simple kiss. When I talk about a kiss.... I mean a kiss. One kiss, not french kissing, not some long passionate kiss. It can be on the cheek or on the mouth. A simple kiss that shows that you love the person very very much and that you probably want to be married to them. It shows that the relationship is serious.
Now it could be said that if you truly truly want to be safe from all of that... then just don't date or get married. razz (Just joking)
Kudos to your friend for wanting the first kiss to be over the alter. I think that sounds really romantic. And its cool that someone wants to wait for a kiss.
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Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 12:34 am
Your example with fire is a great one.
So basically, it comes down to how much fire you choose to use. I guess it is just a matter of opinion on what is right and what is wrong. A simple kiss can lead to making out, but not necessarily. And making out could lead to a moral mistake, but not necessarily. It depends on each person. It could be said that even holding hands could lead to a mistake. So, it really isn't a matter of right or wrong, but basically how far do you want to go. We all agree that we need to keep ourselves morally clean. It is true that making out puts at a greater risk than just a kiss. And just a kiss is more dangerous than just holding hands. I guess we should never feel we are above making a mistake. If Satan can lead us to a sense of infallibility, he has a better chance of catching us off our guard.
More power to those who decide not to make out or kiss!
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