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Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 12:50 pm
So yeah, the other day, i was dumped. Thats putting it lightly. Another way of putting it is that she verbally ripped my heart out, stabbed it a few times... then she hangs it out on my sleeve so that i can always look down and feel the pain. >.< She didn't even tell me in person, and she was actually planning on breaking it off with me via a myspace message. There was no leading up to this either. We had just hung out all day the night before, and were having fun, and carrying on like normal. Apparently it hasn't been normal for her though. One of the many reasons she gave was that she simply no longer loved me. (this was really the part that hurt the most)
So yeah, I'm a bit depressed as of lately. I think it has been a week, but i have lost track of the days.
Any thoughts on the matter?
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Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 3:33 pm
She ain't into wine & roses Beer just makes her turn up her nose And, she can't stand the thought of sippin' champagne No Cuervo Gold Margaritas Just ain't enough good burn in tequila [♥] Well, I know the feeling heart I'm here if you EVER need to talk. EVER. biggrin
My thoughts on the matter= I know tis hard but you just need to find something better to look forward to. Move on. Time will help, just don't think about it. It obviously happened for a reason.. that reason being theres someone else out there whos better for you! If you learn to be optimistic about life.. everything gets so much easier!
Ok,heres the truth... if she stopped loving you, she never loved you in the first place. You don't just stop loving someone. It doens't work that way. Love is something that can be created, but can never be destroyed. 3nodding
Hmm..I might add more later, I'll just let you think about this for a while. But like I said, PM me if you need to talk 3nodding [♥] She needs somethin' with a little more edge and a little more pain She's my little whiskey Girl She's my little whiskey Girl My Ragged-on-the-edges girl Ah, but I like 'em rough
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Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 8:05 pm
I know the feelin' as well, and I'm thankful for it. Congratulations, you're ready for true love. A person cannot truly love until they know what it feels like to be rejected. Once that has happened we grow a little harder, but only hard enough to no longer be so dependent on another person, and desperate to the point of lovin' anyone (a.k.a. puppy love). There is a part in all of our lives where we seem to fall for anyone and think they're the one. Who knows though, maybe it's not everyone, but from what I've seen it's a big majority. Anyway, the first time or maybe the first few times we are in love we aren't experienced enough, and thus we get to clingly most of the time or don't give the other person enough space, or we expect them to be too perfect. Once you've been dumped you tend to learn from it, and it guides you in further relationships, helpin' you find that one special someone.
If hurts, and I'm sorry you had to go through it, but remember that in the long run it is for the better, and you'll look back on this day and be thankful that you were dumped because if not you would have never found the right one! Just remember, true love only comes when you aren't lookin'.
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 8:47 pm
Semok, You have said I'm too dependent on you, and too clingy and don't give you enough space... D= gonk crying But I love you. And I'm pretty damn sure it's true love.
Anyway, Kyle, what Candy said, if she doesn't love you anymore, then it means she never really loved you. and just get over it and wait for the right person to come along.
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 7:11 am
`Chez` Semok, You have said I'm too dependent on you, and too clingy and don't give you enough space... D= gonk crying But I love you. And I'm pretty damn sure it's true love. Anyway, Kyle, what Candy said, if she doesn't love you anymore, then it means she never really loved you. and just get over it and wait for the right person to come along. You're perfect just the way you are. You're not as clingy as the people I'm talkin' about, no worries!
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2007 6:11 am
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-RandomRadRainbows- Vice Captain
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