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 Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 3:32 pm
crying I have asked this girl out three times now.she's Chinese and i am english U.S., but every time i have she just looked at me oddly, I don't think she understands what i'm saying so i'd appriciate any tips to solving this problem.
Thanks
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Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 5:50 pm
When you say she doesn't understand.
Do you mean a language barrier?
'Cos I can't help you with that. xD
You just need to learn Chinese?
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Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 11:13 pm
Correct...I hope sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2007 10:26 am
Let's see a pic. wink JKJK
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2007 11:03 am
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2007 11:08 am
It'd be kinda hard during summer sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2007 11:35 am
Where do you know her from?
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2007 6:00 pm
berryscary1 It'd be kinda hard during summer sweatdrop um....i think she understands its just idk really does she even know you O.o
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Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 9:28 pm
t0shi0
Where do you know her from?
from high school for two years now
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Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 9:29 pm
Kuchiki_san berryscary1 It'd be kinda hard during summer sweatdrop um....i think she understands its just idk really does she even know you O.o were friends and talk every once in a while and she is my lab partner
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Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 9:54 pm
× hmm.. if u do take up Chinese during summer.. it MAY show her that you are sincere...
but why does she look at you oddly? what did you say to her? how did you ask her out or drop hints that u like her?
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Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 10:13 pm
soumakisa × hmm.. if u do take up Chinese during summer.. it MAY show her that you are sincere...
but why does she look at you oddly? what did you say to her? how did you ask her out or drop hints that u like her? I asked her what she was doing this weekend and also asked her if she would like to go to the theater. the reaction wasn't exactly odd...I'm not sure.
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 2:06 am
If you guys can have a talk now and again, and she is your lab partner, and she lives in the USA, she should not have too many problems with comminucating with you in English, ne? But aside from that, my personal recommendation is, if you really, REALLY like her, as in, if you seriously think she's "the one", blah blah blah, and you really want to go out with her, then yeah, course, go ahead and learn some Chinese! It's going to be hard, and it'll need some commitment... I mean, as a Chinese girl myself, I find Chinese tricky. sweatdrop But if there are plenty other fish in the sea, and you most probably will move on from this, then I don't think you should. If you want to imprrove your general knowledge, then of course, learning Chinese would be a good thing, especially with China growing at such a fast rate and overcoming the USA sooner or later. But my advice is, if you're not THAT into her, then... don't bother if you can't be bothered. But I think, if you really like her and do go learn some Chinese, she may find that really touching. 3nodding As a girl, I probably would, that a guy went to such lengths. I also recommend learning not just the language, but more about the culture, ya know? I do find there are plenty of differences, being what I am - feeling half Chinese, half English, gah... So yep, do your best whatever the case. And keep trying; don't just freak out cause she gave you an odd look. You may have misinterpreted it. 3nodding As long as you're not too overbearing, then... she should get it. And if she returns those feelings, you should be fine!
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 8:22 am
It doesn't seem like she doesn't understand.
-this may sound harsh-
Maybe she's just not interested? :/
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 8:31 am
learn Chinese and ask her out. :]
i would give it a shot. dont just give up.
but why she look at you oddly?? was it something you said or did?
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