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 Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 3:33 am
that I am 16 and have never been kissed or have made out ever!!! I feel pathetic, I had a hot gf, we went out for a year and really I just feel use dby her cuz I we never really got close, and recentley I tried to hook back up with her and she ditches me at a dance!!! A dress dance, the kind you have to get dressed all fancie for... I felt like a dum a** in my ROTC uniform watching the girl I had a thing for ditch me for a half a** drinker who's been held back in 10th grade for 3 years...
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 11:07 am
I'm 16. Never been kissed, never held a guys hand, never hugged a guy, and never been alone with a guy. Never had a boyfriend. So I don't think it's sad at all. My friends think it's sad that I never did anything with a guy and they try to make me over and tell me I need to lose more weight..then I'll get a guy. Well, if that's the only way to get a guy..I rather not have one.
People who ditch you are not great at all. I used to have friends who take me to the mall and ditch me when there boyfriend would show up. I didn't have a ride home and was stuck at the mall till my Mom got home from work. Leave that girl in the past.
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 11:20 am
Don't feel bad man, I never had a gf until I was 17. Never kissed or even really liked. Of course I'm not really like by girls in my school now as is anyways (I'm 18 now and a senior) so it's no big deal. Just tough it out and you'll find the right girl for ya man.
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 4:03 pm
Nah. I was sixteen before I had a somewhat serious boyfriend, and the guy I'm with now was fifteen before he ever kissed a girl, which incidentally was me. There's no time constraints on getting physical with another person, and no reason to believe you have to do anything by a certain age. You shouldn't feel weird or anything because you're X amount of years old and haven't done this, this, and that. -shrug- Things'll fall into place on their own, just don't rush growing up.
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 4:51 pm
i beat all you guys.....thats sad.
i didnt have my first girlfriend till feburary. I didnt get my frist kiss till about 2 weeks later (i was 17). i hadnt dated in about 2 years before that.
She ended up breaking up with me because she was afraid of getting too close to someone after her last boyfriend (he died. hit by a bus and then impaled by the iron fence, she watched it. has been afraid to get close eversince for fear of losing the person)
so she cheats on me and then when that doesnt drive me away she breaks up with me because of cheap reasons, which she confessed to me about 2 weeks ago. really bullshitty reasons....but ive since moved on....now im just lonely.....i wish i had someone again....
ANYWAYS! sorry for the slight rant.... but Joe, dont worry about it. if she never showed any affection for you in the first place...then im sorry man, but shes not worth it. It sucks but really there are more worth while people out there.
and if they have a friend let me know wink
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 5:35 pm
A winner is me!
I didn't have my first BF or kiss till I was 20. But, I ended up marrying him 4laugh . It all paid off in the end. Quantity or when it happends dosen't matter, it's quality!
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 5:56 pm
Kawaii_Senpai A winner is me! I didn't have my first BF or kiss till I was 20. But, I ended up marrying him 4laugh . It all paid off in the end. Quantity or when it happends dosen't matter, it's quality! I tie with you. But the guy I had was a total a*****e. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 6:55 am
I'm 25, turning 26 in September. Never dated, kissed, held hands, been told that I'm attractive(not counting relatives or older women like that). I usually sit alone in even the most crowded cafeterias(people actually pull extra chairs from my table to sit elsewhere), women tend to move faster to an almost jogging pace when they're walking infront of me as if I'm trying to rob them or something...More recently at my college I tried getting the attention of a girl I see on the campus & at the bus stop(soft & sexy redhead). She now perfers the library for using the computer rather than the computer lab where I'm usually located.
*takes his trophy & places it on his TV set*
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Posted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 8:47 am
Well I am 27 and I am in the same situation. I have this crazy idea put in my head really long ago that I shouldn't even try because there's no way a guy would want to be with me. I wonder sometime if it will stay that way all my life. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 9:21 am
Naito I'm 25, turning 26 in September. Never dated, kissed, held hands, been told that I'm attractive(not counting relatives or older women like that). I usually sit alone in even the most crowded cafeterias(people actually pull extra chairs from my table to sit elsewhere), women tend to move faster to an almost jogging pace when they're walking infront of me as if I'm trying to rob them or something...More recently at my college I tried getting the attention of a girl I see on the campus & at the bus stop(soft & sexy redhead). She now perfers the library for using the computer rather than the computer lab where I'm usually located. *takes his trophy & places it on his TV set* ::sniffles and huggles him tightly:: You know, 90% of ALL the females on earth Piss Me OFF!!! scream
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Posted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 11:16 am
My first kiss was with a girl.. and I was drunk.
Then she fell in love with me and I didnt share the feelings back
Now we act weird around eachother, I dont like it.
I was always too shy to kiss my boyfriends.
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Posted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 12:32 pm
ClaudiaJade Naito I'm 25, turning 26 in September. Never dated, kissed, held hands, been told that I'm attractive(not counting relatives or older women like that). I usually sit alone in even the most crowded cafeterias(people actually pull extra chairs from my table to sit elsewhere), women tend to move faster to an almost jogging pace when they're walking infront of me as if I'm trying to rob them or something...More recently at my college I tried getting the attention of a girl I see on the campus & at the bus stop(soft & sexy redhead). She now perfers the library for using the computer rather than the computer lab where I'm usually located. *takes his trophy & places it on his TV set* ::sniffles and huggles him tightly:: You know, 90% of ALL the females on earth Piss Me OFF!!! scream *hugs back & smiles* Eh I try not to dwell on it. I have plenty of friends online & all. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 3:56 pm
dont feel so bad, my first kiss was a dare and my first girlfriend was a plot to get revenge on a friend razz
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Posted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 7:39 pm
No hon...don't worry about it. I didn't start dating until I was 18. I had a make out session when I was a couple of years longer, but it was a couple of smooches and that was it, no big deal.
When the timing is right, you will find a sweet girl who will knock your socks off, until that day, don't focus so much time trying to find someone...my luck used to be when I stopped trying to find a guy, all of a sudden they came out of the woodwork. I think people can sense whether you are anxious to find someone or not, so try and relax and take things on a day to day basis heart
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Posted: Mon Aug 01, 2005 12:50 pm
well I am not trying to top anyone or anything , just sharing my experiences. I am 25 and have never had a gf. never had a freind with benefits. never had a meaningfull kiss or even a hug. I am straight and I constantly have gay guys hitting on me. i have never been on a date. and never had anyone say that I am attractive. fortunatly no one has ever called me ugly either. the reason why this bothers me so much is because I want to have a family really badly. I love kids.
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