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 Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 1:37 pm
I keep having this dream over and over and wake up crying, it may seem unimportant to other people, but it is scaring me a little. I would like to know what you think and maybe what i might have to do to stop the dreams.
I am on my computer downstairs, on msn, and talking to lots of people, when my ex come online.
I start talking to him, but he seems different since we split on the 25th June. I ask him if he is feeling alright and he just replys that he is dating someone else, acturally getting married tommorow to this girl named Lucie in his tutor group.
He is totally different and has seemed to change for her, it starts to worry me as he speaks to me differently, and acts different like i was nothing. I tell him that i think it is a little too far, especially since he is only 12, too young to get married. He tells me that its his life and he dumped me so he can do what he wants and seems very snappy to me.
He is the captain of a football team in his school, and all of a sudden he cancels it and everything else for the girl.
As i said i wake up crying, but im not sure if its because he was my first real boyfriend and i cant get over him that this is happening, but i hope that it stops. i do get on very well with him now, so i cant understand how this dream can relate to him at all.
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 2:04 pm
Okay, reoccuring dreams are fairly easy to fix especially when it comes to love.
The first thing you need to do, since you still like him is ask him, "Honestly what am I to you in terms of a relationship?"
He will say one of these:
1. A friend
2. A girl friend
3. hot stuff
4. Future bride
If he responds number 3, dump him. It means he is just using you and is thinking through his pants and nothing else. That will stop the dreams.
The dream you are having is your troubled mind trying to figure out how close you are with a man you like err.. could be a boy...but you get the idea. It's nerves. And until you ask him what he thinks of you at this point, then you will continue to have the dreams.
Does this help, Somer?
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Posted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 12:38 pm
I hope that advice from my granny helped you Somer.
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Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 9:17 am
Shouldn't this topic be better taken to the PMs?
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Posted: Wed Feb 18, 2009 7:30 am
No one is worth your tears.
The only one that is will never make you cry..
{Yes, i'm Somer. Different account due to hacking >.>}
Hm. Me and my younger self >.<
Yes, thank you that did help a lot =3 Obviously since it's now a year and a half later everything is okay.
If i remember correctly Empress Dee said i could make a thread here about it.
And she disappears.. <3
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Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 3:39 pm
Welcome back somer. The thread you were in called empress dee's lounge is in the lounges section.
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