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 Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 3:23 am
I dont tell any of my freinds im bi, i dont do anything to suggest im bi, i do alot so people dont think im bi but i am bi and im dying for a boyfreind but i dont think i could handle that change in my social life as far as my current freinds and stuff.
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 12:11 pm
That is ok. I went through that too. But i slow came out to my friends and the world started to change. I felt more happy that i did... but i didn't tell my parents or family members because i am scared to death!
Anyways, just take your time.
I know i want a bf too but i can't risk my secrete being revealed to my family.
But... idk.
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 7:23 pm
I know you probably don't want to hear this, but if they really are your friends, they'll understand. All my close friends know and they don't make a big deal about it...but that's because they know I'd rather be with someone older.
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Posted: Sun Jun 24, 2007 4:28 am
i figure ill just hint at it slowly only to a few people...and figure s**t out after that...
but ill take a gaia bf anytime mrgreen
-hint-hint-
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Posted: Sun Jun 24, 2007 3:29 pm
I used to be secret. I never realized how much I was hurting myself by keeping it closed up. xp As soon as I started telling people a couple years ago things just lightened up in my life quite a bit. The first person I told was my girlfriend at the time. sweatdrop I expected some kind of raging fit stressed But she had no problem at all with it. She actually seemed oddly happy about it. Maybe she knew before hand.
It was a change my life needed. Today, only my mother doesn't know but i think she suspects something. I haven't had a girlfriend for a VERY long time and honestly I don't have a craving for one. I've been rethinking my sexuality alot recently. I've been looking more at guys. Really I think I've lost most if not all of my interest in girls. And look at me now I'm blabbing I'm sorry sweatdrop
But that's a little about me since i'm coming back to gaia now for the first time in like 2 yrs
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Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 4:55 pm
i'm bi and i only told the people that told me they were bi, then i started telling people that i was bi and soon i didn't care who knew aside from my parents which i told them myself last year... wow i just realized it's been over a year since i told them... anyways so yeah i knew how it felt and i've wanted to see if maybe i'm meant to be with a guy, so i'de like to get a bf on here and see
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Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 7:48 pm
Well, I'm a lesbian, but I first came out as being bi so there's the thread holding it to this! ^^;
I told those who I knew I could trust, tell them first if you feel like you must tell someone.
Just wait, it'll come in due time.
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2007 7:08 pm
I'm bi, but my friend don't really notice...... they think I just weird
I'm a guy, & I wore rainbow toe-sock 2 school no said anything.... well mainly "thats hot or wtf dude"
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 4:52 pm
Yachiru pkk I'm bi, but my friend don't really notice...... they think I just weird I'm a guy, & I wore rainbow toe-sock 2 school no said anything.... well mainly "thats hot or wtf dude" if i saw that i would prolly but the two together like so "wft dude really, i mean they look real good on you but i wouldn't think you'd do that lol"
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 3:11 am
damn, looks like the story of my life O_O quite the same sweatdrop you have any suggstions?
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 9:23 pm
all my friends know i'm bi and i'm surprised none of them left me, so do my parents when i told them shortly after i left home, which turned out ok. so from the sounds of things i got off lucky. and a side note there were 2 girls on main street where i live that had out 2 signs, one with a gay couple and a lez couple on one sign and honk is you support gay marriage on the other one. i stopped by and honked and chatted with them for a few minutes, they seemed really pumped and excited to be doing what they were doing
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 9:07 am
Yea I am a secret too. I only told my lesbian friend. I am afraid to tell my close friends because one of our friends already said she was bi and they seem to say negative things but at the same time accept it.
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 12:48 am
I havnt told anyone either. I dont really want to tell my friends because at this point i dont tell them much of anything. But i dont tell my parents a single thing because they are really, really conservative. I really dont want to picture what would happen if i told them. Yikes !!! But its nice to know there are other people out there that feel the same. biggrin
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 2:27 pm
I had the same situation. I knew I was oddly attarcted to females while in 6th grade [after seeing a T.a.T.u msuic video. xP] I slowly brought up homosexuality that year but two of my three very close friends were 'ewww' so I kept it under wraps. The next year I ended up telling three people, two guys [one was my bf at the time] and my close female friend [who told me she was bi as well] and some friends started suspecting at the end of the eyar. Last year I'd tell soem people if they asked [mostly after they said they were bi] and finaly came out rather casually during lunch. I sat down like usual and said "I was aske dout in band class today" they asked what I was gonna do simply siad "I'll prolly say yes." so they asked who was the lukcy guy. I jsut shrugged saying "Jerrianne."
So, moral of the story: Once ya get in terms with it and slowly get used to saying it it wont be such a problem.
I havent told my parnets yet [well, actually I told my mom but she said it was just a phase. I just nodded and went off. Never brought up again]. And dont plan to for a while.
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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 10:44 pm
i've only told a few people i'm bi but when i told my closest friend it was like we kind of drifted apart and are only now getting close again. i guess she was freaked out at first even though she said she was cool with it. i've also hinted it to one or two friends that are also bi and i told a friend of mine that lives in new jersey and since i live in canada i felt that i couldn't be super judged by it. she was cool with it and its more accepted now but i'm still a bit nervous about coming out. i think my parents suspect something because i've only had a few VERY short flings with guys and i've only kissed one of them. haha.. i'm so pathetic sad
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