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 Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 4:10 pm
Hello all of you groovy people you! 4laugh
For those of you who don't know, I've been on hiatus from Gaia for the most part. I've been busy doing website projects and dealing with some crap.
By crap, I mean dealing with the blantant malicious lies that my mom's current neighbours are spouting off.
They have made a profession out of avoiding rent. And they will do whatever it takes to live free. They have gloated about their past victories with landlords/tennants back in Cornwall, so they've been doing this for awhile.
They've been giving my mom hell for a couple of months straight, calling the cops on them continously and threatening to sick their trained attack dogs on them.
But they decided torturing my mother wasn't enough. They knew that I used to live where they live now, and they had the audacity to say that I beat my children...that the rooms were covered in blood/vomit/feces.
Why did they say this? Because apparently when my girls go and visit their grandparents *who live in the other part of the house*, they are 'too quiet and well behaved' so naturally I must be abusing them rolleyes .
Well they have finally been evicted. My mother and step father had to be patient and do things legally in order to kick them out, but all of their work has finally paid off.
And we couldn't be happier. We plan on having a big ol' party the day that they move....good food avec le barbeque, cold drinks, and good tunes. This is a victory that I will never forget.
So...now that you've read all of that, my questions are these...
- Have you ever had malicious neighbours or friends/relatives *if not malicious, then meddlesome/annoying* ?
- Has someone ever said something intentionally damaging because they felt liked it/had an ulterior motive?
- Have you ever had a (legal/verbal) battle with someone who was in the wrong but had gone around trying to make YOU look like the one at fault?
- Did you wind up being victorious? How did you celebrate?
Discuss.
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Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 4:24 pm
I can happily say that I have never encountered anybody that nasty.
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Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 5:46 pm
i remeber there used to be some kids in my Ex Girlfriend Neighborhood that were complete assholes and vandalised her house as well as called her a whore for no reason (everytime i wasnt there. one time i was and chased one of the bastards down on his bike.)
no me but i had a neighbor when i was WAY little who came into the same crap you had to go through. Her kids were nice and everything but some of the other neighbors would say how she neglected them and she was never home and beat them because they were always at our house (the kids always jumped fences and had plently of bruises from it. no from beatings)
i get into many a battle with my cousins. and they always try to make me the bad guy because apparently i am to them.
sometimes if someone is actually listening theyll see im right but i got in trouble a couple of times because they believed my cousins instead.
also. congrats on kicking those assholes out. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 6:02 pm
Fuzzy Necromancer I can happily say that I have never encountered anybody that nasty. Then you, my dear friend, are quite lucky indeed. I wouldn't wish this kind of harassment on my worst enemy, no one should have to deal with such evil people. la_guitarra: I hate it when people hold on to the past mistakes you've made in the past instead of focusing on how you are now. I'm sad to hear that they don't appreciate the efforts you are putting forth now...but it's their loss.
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Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:08 pm
Tessiebean Fuzzy Necromancer I can happily say that I have never encountered anybody that nasty. Then you, my dear friend, are quite lucky indeed. I wouldn't wish this kind of harassment on my worst enemy, no one should have to deal with such evil people. la_guitarra: I hate it when people hold on to the past mistakes you've made in the past instead of focusing on how you are now. I'm sad to hear that they don't appreciate the efforts you are putting forth now...but it's their loss. I am quite happy for you! This is wonderful news and hopefully this will leave a little more time in your life you join us again! ^^ Unfortunately nasty people like this do live in this world. I lived with a couple who could care nothing except for about themselves and how they could get away with this or that for free. One frequently lied and stole, and the other mooched. The girl of the couple, who was once a friend said to me when I asked why she continued to side with the liar "I have to stand behind my man, it doesn't matter if he is right or wrong." If it would have been me I would kicked his sorry a** out. It wasn't like he had a job except for selling drugs.
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Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 11:50 pm
Well, at the moment we have neighbours who were chased out of the worst part of the nearby town (I live in a village), but they're not the extremely bad sort. Every now and then they'll play loud music deep into the night and when their son still lived there he loved ******** around with his scooters all day (covering the road with parts; crossing around on them), but mostly they're too busy with their own s**t. What happens in that family would do any soap-opera proud, I tell you...
Personally I've never had any trouble with someone like that, but one of my best friends has been called to the police station twice through lies other people told about him. Once his mother's new husband reported that he made porn-movies in his basement (I'm not joking). The police didn't even take it serious. The other time one of his former friends posed as his girlfriend and said he'd beaten her. When his real girlfriend showed up this was soon alleviated. He always used to have trouble like this in the past because he just steps on too many toes. Nowadays everything's calm around him, though.
And congratulations, Tessiebean. It's good to know you can all breathe a little easier now.
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2005 2:57 pm
Wow. I've never had anything tha bad. The worst that's happened to us is our neighbor's dogs barking their heads off at ours then the neighbors call to complain about our dog. stare
P.S.: Not related to the incident, but one of their dogs sounds like a zipper being zipped and unzipped when it barks. XDDD
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Posted: Sat Jul 23, 2005 5:28 am
We've always lived out in the country, and when I moved out, I picked a place that was on the top of the mountain, and I can't see my neighbor's house through the trees. I've never had to deal with neighbors in close proximity; it isn't my thing. I like my space. If I can't walk around the house naked for fear someone can see into my window, or have sex in the backyard, we're too close. xd
My grandparents, though, have lived in the same place for... -counts- Thirteen or fourteen years. They've seen all kinds of neighbors. The apartment complex they live in used to be wonderful; my parents and I used to live there when I was young. But as years have gone by, it's gone to s**t. Drug dealers and people with nine kids have moved in and begun trashing everything about it. Gram won't go outside after dark anymore because people mess with her. It used to be her favorite thing to walk to the Waffle House, which is like five minutes away. Now she won't, or she will but she has to get a ride home because once she hits her neighborhood after dark, these teenagers from other apartments ******** with her. She had to mace one when he tried to rob her. She has three locks on her door, and hopefully when my mother moves, she'll be taking Gram and Pop with her into one of those houses with an in-law apartment thingy so that they'll be right there, but have their own space. Gah. It's ridiculous how that neighborhood has become an innercity ghetto. I don't even feel safe there, and I've never been intimidated by people.
Anyhow. No, I've never dealt with people like that because I never live close enough. I refuse. However, my poor grandparents have. I'm glad you were able to deal with yours and get things changed.
On a completely unrelated note, the title to your thread really does read like a good, hard orgasm. xp
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Posted: Sat Jul 23, 2005 9:36 am
Well when I live with my mother she's the annoying neighbor for everyone around us.. she blasts her music into all hours of the night
But, I've had those neighbors.. and.. I always end up moving before it gets too far so I've never had to really deal with them for long
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 9:41 pm
I have encountered people like that but thankfully thats in the past and things are far better then they were.
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