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 Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 1:51 pm
Please someone help.
Let me explain my dilemma, erm, it's not really a dilemma, or a problem but I need help right now nonetheless.
Well, like, I'm bi. Or at least, I thought I was....
I always thought I liked guys too. But, now i'm not so sure. I'm starting to realize that I like girls a lot more than guys, I mean like A LOT. I honestly can't really imagine myself dating a guy, because it doesn't sound very appealing to me anymore.
And, see, my only crush right now is a girl. And, that also concerns me.
So, I guess my question is, are there any bi people out there that favor the same gender more than the opposite one? Or does liking girls more automatically make me a lesbian?
I'm sorry, again I wasn't sure if I was aloud to make a thread, but, I really need to talk to someone...
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Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 1:54 pm
Does anyone have any advice? Or an opinion on all of this? If so, i'd really like to hear it...
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Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:06 pm
Liking one gender more than the other doesn't nessarily make you a lesbian or straight. If you don't feel comfortable dating guys, then don't. Do what makes you happy, don't listen to people who bash you for who you are... they are stupid.
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:45 am
Prefering one over the other doesn't make you a lesbian. You are still bi I supose because you would still date a boy, yes? If you wouldn't I would say you are lesbian.
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:26 am
I agree with those two, if you have a preference of one gender over the other then that doesn't make you not bi. And even if you are a lesbian, what's the big deal? I can honestly not see why you would have a problem with that.
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 2:21 pm
I would say don't go with labels, you are what you are and what you feel like! pirate
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:45 pm
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 11:32 pm
Right! Even if you keep your pide to yourself, always be proud of who you are no matter what people say. biggrin
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 11:47 pm
AkureiKnight Right! Even if you keep your pide to yourself, always be proud of who you are no matter what people say. biggrin Ho-yah! blaugh
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Posted: Sat Jul 23, 2005 11:04 pm
I'm getting the feeling you're afraid of being called a lesbian. I rather empathise with your situation. I too very much favor girls, but feel conformed by that lable. I just call myself a lesbian...even though that's kinda akward, I figgure I'll grow into it though. I agree with the other people, don't be put off by what you're called. Don't let the lable make choices for you. You're never "automatically" a lesbian, though I'll be perfectly honest with you, you sound like one. Hell, you could just say "open minded" and be done with it xP
Long story short: don't worry about it ^_^
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 9:18 pm
rurica I'm getting the feeling you're afraid of being called a lesbian. I rather empathise with your situation. I too very much favor girls, but feel conformed by that lable. I just call myself a lesbian...even though that's kinda akward, I figgure I'll grow into it though. I agree with the other people, don't be put off by what you're called. Don't let the lable make choices for you. You're never "automatically" a lesbian, though I'll be perfectly honest with you, you sound like one. Hell, you could just say "open minded" and be done with it xP Long story short: don't worry about it ^_^ I'm sorry, I know that there's nothing wrong with being a lesbian. Arrgh, I'm just so confused.
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 10:39 pm
rurica I'm getting the feeling you're afraid of being called a lesbian. I rather empathise with your situation. I too very much favor girls, but feel conformed by that lable. I just call myself a lesbian...even though that's kinda akward, I figgure I'll grow into it though. I agree with the other people, don't be put off by what you're called. Don't let the lable make choices for you. You're never "automatically" a lesbian, though I'll be perfectly honest with you, you sound like one. Hell, you could just say "open minded" and be done with it xP Long story short: don't worry about it ^_^ I agree with Rurica, labels should not control you and automatically make your mind up for you.
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Posted: Mon Jul 25, 2005 5:38 pm
Tenaku rurica I'm getting the feeling you're afraid of being called a lesbian. I rather empathise with your situation. I too very much favor girls, but feel conformed by that lable. I just call myself a lesbian...even though that's kinda akward, I figgure I'll grow into it though. I agree with the other people, don't be put off by what you're called. Don't let the lable make choices for you. You're never "automatically" a lesbian, though I'll be perfectly honest with you, you sound like one. Hell, you could just say "open minded" and be done with it xP Long story short: don't worry about it ^_^ I agree with Rurica, labels should not control you and automatically make your mind up for you. Or if all else fails, you can have FUN with the "label"! If a guy calls you a lesbian then you can call him one right back! Crudely translated the word means "likes girls" anyways.... And I just had another revelation with that! All the guys who say that "Lesbians are so hot" are infact calling males hot too and are therefor (to put a label on it) "GAY"! HA! BOO-YA! pirate
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Posted: Mon Jul 25, 2005 5:40 pm
Fadia Stalyr Tenaku rurica I'm getting the feeling you're afraid of being called a lesbian. I rather empathise with your situation. I too very much favor girls, but feel conformed by that lable. I just call myself a lesbian...even though that's kinda akward, I figgure I'll grow into it though. I agree with the other people, don't be put off by what you're called. Don't let the lable make choices for you. You're never "automatically" a lesbian, though I'll be perfectly honest with you, you sound like one. Hell, you could just say "open minded" and be done with it xP Long story short: don't worry about it ^_^ I agree with Rurica, labels should not control you and automatically make your mind up for you. Or if all else fails, you can have FUN with the "label"! If a guy calls you a lesbian then you can call him one right back! Crudely translated the word means "likes girls" anyways.... And I just had another revelation with that! All the guys who say that "Lesbians are so hot" are infact calling males hot too and are therefor (to put a label on it) "GAY"! HA! BOO-YA! pirate Huh? How so?
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Posted: Mon Jul 25, 2005 5:55 pm
Freshpaint987 Fadia Stalyr Tenaku rurica I'm getting the feeling you're afraid of being called a lesbian. I rather empathise with your situation. I too very much favor girls, but feel conformed by that lable. I just call myself a lesbian...even though that's kinda akward, I figgure I'll grow into it though. I agree with the other people, don't be put off by what you're called. Don't let the lable make choices for you. You're never "automatically" a lesbian, though I'll be perfectly honest with you, you sound like one. Hell, you could just say "open minded" and be done with it xP Long story short: don't worry about it ^_^ I agree with Rurica, labels should not control you and automatically make your mind up for you. Or if all else fails, you can have FUN with the "label"! If a guy calls you a lesbian then you can call him one right back! Crudely translated the word means "likes girls" anyways.... And I just had another revelation with that! All the guys who say that "Lesbians are so hot" are infact calling males hot too and are therefor (to put a label on it) "GAY"! HA! BOO-YA! pirate Huh? How so? By saying that "Lesbians are hot", unless they specify, they are saying that all "lesbians" are hot (men included since all males [except gay ones] are lesbians)! sweatdrop I'm probably not making any sense here, sorry! gonk
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