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melocure

PostPosted: Tue May 29, 2007 11:42 am



My friend betrayed me.
She told everyone about what happened last Saturday.
Essentially, this is what happened:

I met up with her boyfriend's friend.
We had sex in the back of his car.
Everybody in the rink found out in a matter of minutes.
As soon as I came in, I had more guys leering at me. >_>

Anyways. Apparently, I was the most talked about girl in another friend's history class. For 1 1/2 hours, all they could talk about was how much of a slut I was.

I had a few guys praise me [Nice going Shay -highfive-].

But the person I thought was my friend is the one blabbing all the information. I have people coming up to me asking [explicitly] if x, y, and z happened. Everything word to word that I told my friend; I only told one friend the full details.

When I confronted her, she denied it.

I'm milking off the attention right now at school. I'm laughing, and going along with it. But I don't need all this harrassment right now. Honestly.
PostPosted: Tue May 29, 2007 1:14 pm


Eh, your friend is a douche bag! XD
Sorry, I'm really hyper and listening to "This Is Halloween" but anyway! ^^'
If she denied telling others those things, and the people who are asking you about it use detailed questions that only your friend could've known, then I say....

SCREW THEM ALL.

Seriously!
What you do is none of their business! They shouldn't be calling you a slut when they very well could be. twisted
Anyways, even though they are being total assholes by talking behind your back about it, maybe next time you have sex it should be in a room ^^'
And don't worry about them, they're so sick of their measley pathetic lives that they're just DYING to talk about SOMEBODY. It just happened to be you sweatdrop
And also- If you know (key word: know) that your friend did it, then you should stop talking to her maybe for awhile. Or just keep confronting her until she cracks mrgreen
Yes, I may be cruel, but like I said- I'm hyper X3

Well I hope I helped you and if not- sorry ^^'
P.S.- I like how you handled it. By not walking up to someone and smacking them across the face (which I would've done ^^'), you've shown to them that they don't affect you and your better than to stoop to their level. WAY TO GO!

fun_loving_wierdo_001


LorienLlewellyn

Quotable Informer

PostPosted: Tue May 29, 2007 5:48 pm


Yeah, telling friends about your sex life is often not a good idea. It's just not their business in their first place.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 8:44 pm


I don't think its any of there bussness.

nightgirl~sakura~4ever99


Lady Roa

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 1:50 am


I suggest not informing your friend from now on. She's seems like a...nasty piece of work.

Just blow people off with comments. "Wouldn't you like to know", "If you say so,".

Or just use the shaming tactic.

Loudly, "Why would you say something like that? What would make a person say something that lude and degrading?"

People will always label you. Take into consideration they all (including your friend) might be jealous.

:3

Good luck.
PostPosted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 6:13 am


melocure

My friend betrayed me.
She told everyone about what happened last Saturday.
Essentially, this is what happened:

I met up with her boyfriend's friend.
We had sex in the back of his car.
Everybody in the rink found out in a matter of minutes.
As soon as I came in, I had more guys leering at me. >_>

Anyways. Apparently, I was the most talked about girl in another friend's history class. For 1 1/2 hours, all they could talk about was how much of a slut I was.

I had a few guys praise me [Nice going Shay -highfive-].

But the person I thought was my friend is the one blabbing all the information. I have people coming up to me asking [explicitly] if x, y, and z happened. Everything word to word that I told my friend; I only told one friend the full details.

When I confronted her, she denied it.

I'm milking off the attention right now at school. I'm laughing, and going along with it. But I don't need all this harrassment right now. Honestly.


Simply having sex doesn't make you a slut hun, dont worry.
Go along like your doing or lie about it.
but get rid of that B*tchy @$$ little friend of yours.
and maybe next time...dont be quite so open about the details

sorry about all that happening to you.

Evil_Dreamer666


luluria-indigo

PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 12:15 am


wow... i hate your friend. she had no right to go blabbing to everyone what happened.

when friends betray, it's the WORST.

my best friend had drunken sex with the guy i've liked for over a year... yeah, betrayal sucks.

i'm sorry your friend did that to you... : /
 
PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 7:05 am


Ever ask why your friend is doing such heartless things? Oh wait, she's denying it? That's pretty foolish sweatdrop

Has she ever attained that level of commitment to her loves? This may explain why is she making such a huge event when you want it to be confidential.

Xeroxer


melocure

PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 9:52 am


I haven't talked to her in almost three months.
Right after the incident, I stopped being friends withher.
I finally got her to admit that she told one of her friends, who helped to spread it around school.
It's all blown over, luckilly. <3
PostPosted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 2:14 am


y would you sleep with you friends boy friend that is wrong dont take ofince but you deserved it

darkecrow


darkecrow

PostPosted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 2:17 am


im really sorry i i skiped a word i thought you said you friend boyfrieds but you said your friends boy friends friend im sorry. why would you friend betray you like tHAT SHES NOT A TRUE FRIEND
PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 10:14 am


omg you had sex!!! eek eek eek

i bet you if you asked peeps on this guild bout 67% have
and iut dont make you a slut that needs you to have sex many time (another high %!) so screw their oppinions its yours that matters!

smexy lil fish


cuddly toy

PostPosted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 4:53 am


To be honest that happens alot, and it's deffinatly nothing new. In future remember that your private life is your business, who you're sleeping with and what you do while sleeping with them should really be between you and that person confused But I don't think you'll be rushing to tell friends about your future activities.
PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 8:47 am


zomg, you never should have told her

Cyanide and Candys


xbookxwormx

PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 12:21 pm


wow
that sucks
people are crazy
i hate when people call girls sluts
how sexist
did they say anything to the guy?
probably not
tell people off
tell them it's none of their $*%(*$#&$@(#&$ business
and if they say anything more they can rot in hell =]
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