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yay!!!! *dances*

it's just a matter of preference, that's like a straight person saying there's no such thing as gays, if you're not in that position you cant make a call like that, it might just be me, but i find that offensive, being a bisexual myself.

ha i'm in pretty much the same position as you. But im staying undecided until i'm 100% sure on my sexuality.

well everyone has their opinions and point of views. I was not trying to "offend" anyone, sorry if I did. I was just sharing my opinion. I think there's no reason to be offended. I can listen point of views, understand them and not be offended by them and I respect them. Besides...I accept anyone as they are. Most of my friends are straight and some of them do not support me as gay, still they accept me as I am. For example, I may not believe in God and I won't stop being their friend because of that, and maybe I do not support them, still, I accept them. Same for transexuality. There are many gay people who do not support transexuality. You do? maybe you don't. maybe you do. however, everyone has a diff point of view about it. Some people support it some people don't. It doesn't really matter. What really matter is they accept you as you are.

I do not support Bisexuality. Like I said...for me Bi people are more gay than straight. But thats my point of view. I accept Bisexual people and I won't be afraid or feel unconfy around them. Be what you want razz Its your life right? So don't feel offended by other people's opinions. My father do not support Gay. Even thought, he loves me. And I won't feel offended by what he think of Homosexuality. I just listen to his opinion, understand it and keep walking.


So theres nothing to feel "offended" or "insulted". wink

Welcome to the gang cool

I have a boyfriend, but I like gals. Weird, ne? I hate kissing him too. I'm like: Ew ew ew! But he's a nice person, so I don't wanna hurt him. Except he's getting kinda perverted now. He threw me onto his floor when I went to his house.

Me: *pinned* Oi! What happend to watching movies??? eek
Him: You wanted to watch movies?! *depressed look*
Me: Yes... What the hell did you think I came over here for?! O.O

He then proceded to chase me around his house, concluding in my hiding in the washroom... with a broken lock. I had to put my whole body weight against it, while he pushed from the other side. I was kinda scared...

Me neither.

He used to be really sweet, cute, and we didn't have to do anything. Now, he's a jerk and perverted, and thinks that we have to do "things" just to be a couple. stare I fell for the nice guy, not the controlling one. Everytime I try to talk to him, he gives me a wounded look, which stops me dead in my tracks...

Just a little advice...if you aren't attracted to him, break up with him as soon as possible. Pretending to be attracted to someone? Not a very nice thing to do. Even if you're only putting it off 'cause you don't want to hurt him, lying to him for months/years will only hurt more. Even if you don't come out, it's best to at least break up with him.
Second bit of advice? If he's being violent with you, demanding sexual favours from you (kissing, anything you make clear you're uncomfortable with), scaring you - please, please dump him. It's worth it to yourself. If he didn't want to be dumped he should have thought about it before doing that - even if you feel for him, continue to support him as a friend but please don't condone that behaviour, and please don't put yourself in a situation like that.


Anyway ! To the poster - Congrats! You're still young though, don't worry about pigeonholing yourself. There's no rush, right?